1 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:07,200 >> I SAW THIS THING ON TV WHERE 2 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:09,333 THEY SAID PEOPLE THAT ARE OVER 3 00:00:09,333 --> 00:00:11,500 600 POUNDS -- THEY ONLY LIVE A 4 00:00:11,500 --> 00:00:13,700 LIFE-SPAN TO LIKE 32 YEARS OLD, 5 00:00:13,700 --> 00:00:15,767 AND I'M NOT THAT FAR OFF FROM 6 00:00:15,767 --> 00:00:17,300 THAT. 7 00:00:17,300 --> 00:00:18,700 [ CRIES ] 8 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,200 >> I'M GONNA DIE. 9 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:30,000 I KNOW I WILL DIE IF I DON'T 10 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,100 HAVE THE SURGERY. 11 00:00:39,167 --> 00:00:40,533 >> OH! 12 00:00:40,533 --> 00:00:43,133 >> COME OVER AND LIFT! 13 00:00:43,133 --> 00:00:45,400 >> OUR WHOLE RELATIONSHIP WAS 14 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:47,533 BASED ON ME BEING FAT. 15 00:00:47,533 --> 00:00:48,833 I THINK, HONESTLY, SOMETIMES YOU 16 00:00:48,833 --> 00:00:50,533 MISS THE FAT ME. 17 00:00:54,867 --> 00:00:56,367 >> MY MOM -- SHE COMPLAINS I 18 00:00:56,367 --> 00:00:58,067 DON'T WALK ENOUGH, BUT IT'S JUST 19 00:00:58,067 --> 00:00:58,667 SO HARD. 20 00:00:58,667 --> 00:01:00,367 >> SHE'LL TELL YOU SHE'S NOT 21 00:01:00,367 --> 00:01:02,200 EATING VERY MUCH, BUT THAT'S NOT 22 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:02,867 REALITY. 23 00:01:02,867 --> 00:01:03,900 >> SHE'S A MESS. 24 00:01:03,900 --> 00:01:05,133 [ CHUCKLES ] 25 00:01:09,067 --> 00:01:10,867 -- Captions by VITAC -- www.vitac.com 26 00:01:14,067 --> 00:01:16,133 >> BEFORE I STARTED THIS 27 00:01:16,133 --> 00:01:18,700 JOURNEY, I DIDN'T HAVE A LIFE. 28 00:01:18,700 --> 00:01:21,333 I WASN'T GONNA HAVE ONE UNTIL I 29 00:01:21,333 --> 00:01:23,400 MADE THE DECISION TO CHANGE. 30 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,700 I COULD HAVE NEVER IMAGINED WHAT 31 00:01:25,700 --> 00:01:27,933 THE PAST SEVEN YEARS WOULD HAVE 32 00:01:27,933 --> 00:01:29,833 BEEN LIKE. 33 00:01:45,733 --> 00:01:48,067 MY JOINTS IN MY LEGS -- THEY 34 00:01:48,067 --> 00:01:51,500 HURT REALLY, REALLY BAD. 35 00:01:51,667 --> 00:01:54,433 HAVING TO WALK AND DO STUFF IS 36 00:01:54,433 --> 00:01:56,067 HARD. 37 00:01:56,067 --> 00:01:58,533 IT'S JUST IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME. 38 00:01:58,700 --> 00:02:00,467 IT'S EXHAUSTING JUST TO GO 39 00:02:00,467 --> 00:02:05,633 SHOPPING SOMETIMES. 40 00:02:05,633 --> 00:02:07,400 I GET TO THE POINT WHERE MY 41 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,300 WHOLE BODY WILL START SHAKING. 42 00:02:09,300 --> 00:02:11,867 MY LIPS WILL TURN PURPLE. 43 00:02:11,867 --> 00:02:14,167 IT'S VERY HARD. 44 00:02:14,167 --> 00:02:16,300 >> ASHLEY ALWAYS HAD A WEIGHT 45 00:02:16,300 --> 00:02:18,633 PROBLEM, AND SHE KEPT EATING AND 46 00:02:18,633 --> 00:02:20,100 EATING AND EATING. 47 00:02:20,100 --> 00:02:22,367 I WORKED, AND I'D COME HOME AND 48 00:02:22,367 --> 00:02:23,867 COOK DINNER. 49 00:02:24,067 --> 00:02:25,233 I PROBABLY DIDN'T COOK THE RIGHT 50 00:02:25,233 --> 00:02:26,367 FOODS AT THOSE TIMES WHEN SHE 51 00:02:26,367 --> 00:02:27,933 WAS GROWING UP. 52 00:02:28,100 --> 00:02:29,767 >> AT AGE 7, I PROBABLY WEIGHED 53 00:02:29,767 --> 00:02:32,733 ABOUT 120-SOMETHING POUNDS. 54 00:02:32,733 --> 00:02:34,167 AT THE AGE OF 13, I WEIGHED 55 00:02:34,167 --> 00:02:37,667 ABOUT 225 POUNDS. 56 00:02:37,667 --> 00:02:38,833 >> ASHLEY ALWAYS BLAMED ME FOR 57 00:02:38,833 --> 00:02:41,567 HER WEIGHT -- ALWAYS. 58 00:02:41,567 --> 00:02:43,133 >> MY MOM -- IF I WOULD GO TO 59 00:02:43,133 --> 00:02:44,767 GET SECONDS OR SOMETHING, SHE'D 60 00:02:44,767 --> 00:02:46,267 EITHER GIVE ME A LOOK OR SAY 61 00:02:46,267 --> 00:02:47,833 SOMETHING, AND SOMETIMES THAT 62 00:02:47,833 --> 00:02:49,400 WOULD EMBARRASS ME 'CAUSE SHE 63 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,067 WOULD SAY IT IN FRONT OF PEOPLE 64 00:02:51,067 --> 00:02:53,933 TO BE SPITEFUL, BE MEAN. 65 00:02:53,933 --> 00:02:55,833 WHENEVER I GOT MAD AT HER, I'D 66 00:02:55,833 --> 00:02:57,200 TAKE IT OUT ON FOOD. 67 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:58,900 >> I WAS ALWAYS HARPING ON 68 00:02:58,900 --> 00:03:01,067 ASHLEY ABOUT HER WEIGHT 'CAUSE I 69 00:03:01,067 --> 00:03:02,900 RESENTED HER FOR BEING FAT. 70 00:03:08,067 --> 00:03:09,633 HER DADDY -- HE WOULD ALWAYS GET 71 00:03:09,633 --> 00:03:11,167 ON TO ME ABOUT PESTERING ASHLEY 72 00:03:11,167 --> 00:03:12,100 ABOUT HER WEIGHT. 73 00:03:12,100 --> 00:03:14,500 HE JUST SAYS, "LEAVE HER ALONE," 74 00:03:14,500 --> 00:03:16,400 BUT I COULDN'T BACK OFF. 75 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,300 >> MY DADDY IS LIKE MY ROCK, AND 76 00:03:18,300 --> 00:03:19,600 I LOVE HIM TO DEATH. 77 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:21,467 I MEAN, I CAN TALK TO HIM ABOUT 78 00:03:21,467 --> 00:03:22,100 THINGS. 79 00:03:22,100 --> 00:03:24,100 I CAN TELL HIM ANYTHING, AND HE 80 00:03:24,100 --> 00:03:26,167 WON'T JUDGE ME FOR ANYTHING, YOU 81 00:03:26,167 --> 00:03:26,733 KNOW? 82 00:03:26,733 --> 00:03:28,733 MY WEIGHT -- HE DON'T JUDGE ME. 83 00:03:28,733 --> 00:03:31,300 HE TREATS ME, YOU KNOW, IF I WAS 84 00:03:31,300 --> 00:03:33,367 THE SAME AS... 85 00:03:38,300 --> 00:03:39,067 [ CRIES ] 86 00:03:39,067 --> 00:03:40,800 IT'S JUST BEEN HARD WITH HIM 87 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:41,333 GONE. 88 00:03:41,333 --> 00:03:43,167 IT'S JUST SO EMOTIONAL. 89 00:04:00,533 --> 00:04:03,267 MY DADDY'S COMING HOME, AND I'M 90 00:04:03,267 --> 00:04:05,067 SO HAPPY FOR IT. 91 00:04:05,067 --> 00:04:06,233 I AM VERY ANXIOUS. 92 00:04:06,233 --> 00:04:07,567 I'M GETTING ANXIOUS. 93 00:04:07,567 --> 00:04:09,433 THEY'RE LATE. COME ON, NOW. 94 00:04:09,433 --> 00:04:11,600 IF YOU DO THAT, I WILL GRAB YOUR 95 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:12,167 HAIR. 96 00:04:12,167 --> 00:04:13,867 >> AAH! I DIDN'T GRAB -- 97 00:04:13,867 --> 00:04:15,100 >> YES, YOU DID. 98 00:04:15,100 --> 00:04:16,300 YOU GRABBED MY NECK. 99 00:04:16,300 --> 00:04:17,600 >> YOU PULLED MY HAIR. 100 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,633 >> DON'T BE GRABBING MY NECK. 101 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,767 NO! 102 00:04:23,767 --> 00:04:25,300 YOU KNOW, I FELT JEALOUS 'CAUSE 103 00:04:25,300 --> 00:04:26,067 OF MY SISTER. 104 00:04:26,067 --> 00:04:28,067 IT JUST FEELS LIKE MY MOM -- SHE 105 00:04:28,067 --> 00:04:29,800 WOULD, LIKE, I GUESS, LOVE HER 106 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,533 MORE 'CAUSE MY SISTER, SHE'S 107 00:04:31,533 --> 00:04:32,933 SKINNY, AND I'M FAT. 108 00:04:32,933 --> 00:04:34,767 >> I DID PROBABLY SHOW MORE 109 00:04:34,767 --> 00:04:36,700 ATTENTION TO MEGAN THAN I DID 110 00:04:36,700 --> 00:04:37,667 ASHLEY... 111 00:04:37,667 --> 00:04:40,067 [ LAUGHTER ] 112 00:04:40,067 --> 00:04:41,733 ...'CAUSE I DIDN'T HAVE TO WORRY 113 00:04:41,733 --> 00:04:43,267 ABOUT MEGAN'S WEIGHT, 'CAUSE 114 00:04:43,267 --> 00:04:44,800 MEGAN WAS VERY ACTIVE, WHICH 115 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:45,700 ASHLEY WASN'T. 116 00:04:45,700 --> 00:04:52,433 >> HE'S COMING! YAY! 117 00:04:52,433 --> 00:04:54,333 >> I AM SO HAPPY. 118 00:04:54,333 --> 00:04:55,900 >> LOOK AT HER. 119 00:04:59,067 --> 00:05:03,433 [ INDISTINCT CONVERSATIONS ] 120 00:05:03,433 --> 00:05:05,333 >> ALL THE WAY DOWN THERE. 121 00:05:10,233 --> 00:05:11,267 [ BREATHING HEAVILY ] 122 00:05:11,267 --> 00:05:12,200 >> ARE YOU GOING TO THE 123 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,700 RESTAURANT? 124 00:05:14,700 --> 00:05:16,600 [ INDISTINCT CONVERSATIONS ] 125 00:05:28,133 --> 00:05:30,067 >> BOTH MY GRANDPAS WERE OBESE, 126 00:05:30,067 --> 00:05:31,900 AND SOME OF MY AUNTS AND UNCLES 127 00:05:31,900 --> 00:05:35,133 ARE OBESE, TOO. 128 00:05:35,133 --> 00:05:37,067 BUT I CAN'T ALL PUT IT ON MY 129 00:05:37,067 --> 00:05:37,700 GENES. 130 00:05:37,700 --> 00:05:38,800 WE LIKE FOOD. 131 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:40,867 THE FAMILY LIKES FOOD, AND WE 132 00:05:40,867 --> 00:05:41,700 EAT FOOD. 133 00:05:41,700 --> 00:05:43,067 [ INDISTINCT CONVERSATIONS ] 134 00:05:43,067 --> 00:05:46,500 MY TARGET WEIGHT IS 140 POUNDS. 135 00:05:46,500 --> 00:05:48,367 AFTER I GET TO MY TARGET WEIGHT, 136 00:05:48,367 --> 00:05:50,067 I'LL BE ABLE TO START MY NEW 137 00:05:50,067 --> 00:05:50,533 LIFE. 138 00:05:50,533 --> 00:05:53,100 I WANT TO OWN MY OWN DAYCARE 139 00:05:53,100 --> 00:05:55,933 'CAUSE I LOVE KIDS, AND I WOULD 140 00:05:55,933 --> 00:05:58,200 BE REALLY GREAT WITH IT. 141 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:00,333 I USED TO WORK AT A DAYCARE. 142 00:06:00,333 --> 00:06:02,633 THEY FIRED ME BECAUSE THEY SAID 143 00:06:02,633 --> 00:06:04,900 THAT I COULDN'T GET TO A KID IF 144 00:06:04,900 --> 00:06:07,100 SOMETHING WAS GOING ON BECAUSE 145 00:06:07,100 --> 00:06:08,233 OF MY WEIGHT. 146 00:06:08,233 --> 00:06:10,233 MY FEAR IS, LIKE, I'LL BE DEAD 147 00:06:10,233 --> 00:06:12,267 IN FIVE YEARS 'CAUSE I'M GONNA 148 00:06:12,267 --> 00:06:13,700 KEEP GETTING BIGGER. 149 00:06:13,700 --> 00:06:15,700 I HAD TO MAKE THIS DECISION TO 150 00:06:15,700 --> 00:06:17,433 HAVE THE SURGERY. 151 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:19,233 >> AND AS FAR AS MY DAUGHTER'S 152 00:06:19,233 --> 00:06:20,933 SURGERY, I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO 153 00:06:20,933 --> 00:06:22,833 IT. 154 00:06:43,267 --> 00:06:44,967 >> NOW, A COUPLE THINGS YOU WANT 155 00:06:44,967 --> 00:06:46,300 TO AVOID -- VERY IMPORTANT. 156 00:06:46,300 --> 00:06:46,967 >> OKAY. 157 00:06:46,967 --> 00:06:48,667 >> THE FIRST IS THE BUBBLES, 158 00:06:48,667 --> 00:06:49,767 THE CARBONATION. 159 00:06:49,767 --> 00:06:51,600 THE FIRST GOOD CARBONATED DRINK, 160 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:53,133 EVEN IF IT'S A DIET, AFTER 161 00:06:53,133 --> 00:06:54,900 SURGERY -- A FIRST GOOD SWIG OF 162 00:06:54,900 --> 00:06:56,567 IT, I GUARANTEE YOU'LL NEVER, 163 00:06:56,567 --> 00:06:57,767 EVER DO IT AGAIN. 164 00:06:57,933 --> 00:06:59,300 YOU'LL GET A TREMENDOUS PRESSURE 165 00:06:59,300 --> 00:07:00,067 IN YOUR CHEST. 166 00:07:00,067 --> 00:07:01,433 YOU'LL FEEL LIKE YOU'RE HAVING A 167 00:07:01,433 --> 00:07:02,100 HEART ATTACK. 168 00:07:02,100 --> 00:07:03,267 I ALWAYS TELL PATIENTS, IF 169 00:07:03,267 --> 00:07:04,633 YOU'RE GONNA EAT SOMETHING FRIED 170 00:07:04,633 --> 00:07:05,967 AND GREASY, JUST TAKE IT TO THE 171 00:07:05,967 --> 00:07:07,100 BATHROOM AND EAT IT ON THE 172 00:07:07,100 --> 00:07:08,267 TOILET 'CAUSE IT'S GONNA GO 173 00:07:08,267 --> 00:07:09,133 RIGHT THROUGH YOU. 174 00:07:09,133 --> 00:07:10,600 YOU CAN GET THE UPSET STOMACH, 175 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:11,333 THE DIARRHEA. 176 00:07:11,333 --> 00:07:12,833 IT'S GONNA MAKE YOU FEEL REALLY 177 00:07:12,833 --> 00:07:13,200 BAD. 178 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,367 THIS SURGERY IS NOT DESIGNED TO 179 00:07:15,367 --> 00:07:17,367 CONTROL WHAT YOU PUT IN YOUR 180 00:07:17,367 --> 00:07:18,067 MOUTH. 181 00:07:18,067 --> 00:07:20,067 IT'S DESIGNED TO CONTROL HOW 182 00:07:20,067 --> 00:07:21,933 MUCH YOU EAT. 183 00:07:29,567 --> 00:07:30,533 >> YEAH, YOU ARE. 184 00:07:30,533 --> 00:07:31,900 I CAN GO TO THE BATHROOM BY 185 00:07:31,900 --> 00:07:32,900 MYSELF. 186 00:07:34,900 --> 00:07:36,900 >> AW! THAT'S GROSS. 187 00:07:46,467 --> 00:07:48,867 >> ...ZHOOM... 188 00:07:58,267 --> 00:07:59,233 >> HOW ARE YOU? 189 00:07:59,233 --> 00:07:59,900 >> FINE. 190 00:07:59,900 --> 00:08:01,267 >> YOU READY FOR THIS? 191 00:08:01,267 --> 00:08:02,167 >> YES, I AM. 192 00:08:02,167 --> 00:08:03,633 >> ALL RIGHT. 193 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,933 THERE ARE A NUMBER OF CONCERNS 194 00:08:06,933 --> 00:08:09,700 WE HAVE WITH PATIENTS OVER 195 00:08:09,700 --> 00:08:11,067 600 POUNDS. 196 00:08:11,233 --> 00:08:13,300 EVERY TIME WE OPERATE ON 197 00:08:13,300 --> 00:08:15,367 SOMEBODY WHO'S EXTREMELY 198 00:08:15,367 --> 00:08:17,800 OVERWEIGHT, IT PUTS STRAIN ON 199 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:20,367 THE BODY THAT'S ALREADY WORKING 200 00:08:20,367 --> 00:08:22,133 PAST THE LIMIT. 201 00:08:22,133 --> 00:08:24,067 IF ANYTHING GOES WRONG, IT IS 202 00:08:24,067 --> 00:08:25,800 VERY DIFFICULT FOR THEM TO 203 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:27,700 RECOVER. 204 00:08:27,700 --> 00:08:29,900 >> IT'S MAJOR SURGERY. 205 00:08:29,900 --> 00:08:31,533 BEING PUT TO SLEEP, WITH MY 206 00:08:31,533 --> 00:08:33,300 WEIGHT -- THE COMPLICATIONS IS 207 00:08:33,300 --> 00:08:34,267 YOU COULD DIE. 208 00:08:34,267 --> 00:08:36,133 AND I DO NOT WANT TO DIE. 209 00:08:36,133 --> 00:08:38,067 I WANT TO LIVE. 210 00:08:49,333 --> 00:08:51,300 >> IN ORDER TO MAINTAIN A 211 00:08:51,300 --> 00:08:53,567 600-POUND WEIGHT, A PERSON HAS 212 00:08:53,567 --> 00:08:56,067 TO TAKE AT LEAST 10,000 CALORIES 213 00:08:56,067 --> 00:08:57,067 A DAY. 214 00:08:57,233 --> 00:08:59,300 TO MAKE THAT PERSON LOSE WEIGHT, 215 00:08:59,300 --> 00:09:01,133 YOU DO A GASTRIC BYPASS AND 216 00:09:01,133 --> 00:09:02,933 LIMIT THE CALORIE INTAKE TO 217 00:09:02,933 --> 00:09:05,433 800 TO 1,000 CALORIE. 218 00:09:20,167 --> 00:09:23,067 >> IT'S BEEN A LONG DAY. 219 00:09:23,067 --> 00:09:24,567 >> IT HAS BEEN A LONG DAY. 220 00:09:31,067 --> 00:09:32,133 >> SHE DID VERY WELL. 221 00:09:32,133 --> 00:09:33,500 YOU WILL SEE THAT TOMORROW. 222 00:09:33,500 --> 00:09:35,067 SHE'LL BE WALKING ALL OVER THE 223 00:09:35,067 --> 00:09:35,500 PLACE. 224 00:09:35,500 --> 00:09:36,867 >> NOW, THEY'LL HAVE HER UP 225 00:09:36,867 --> 00:09:38,233 TONIGHT WALKING. 226 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:38,967 >> OH, YEAH. 227 00:09:38,967 --> 00:09:40,133 >> I'LL MAKE SURE, 'CAUSE I'LL 228 00:09:40,133 --> 00:09:41,133 BE THERE RIGHT WITH HER. 229 00:09:41,133 --> 00:09:42,167 I'M GONNA SPEND THE NIGHT. 230 00:09:42,167 --> 00:09:43,133 I'M NOT GONNA LEAVE HER. 231 00:09:43,133 --> 00:09:44,800 >> WELL, SHE'LL WAKE UP AND WILL 232 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:48,067 BE DOWN HERE ABOUT AN HOUR. 233 00:09:48,067 --> 00:09:49,333 >> OHH! 234 00:09:56,867 --> 00:09:58,933 >> BABY, WAKE UP. 235 00:09:58,933 --> 00:10:00,833 WAKE UP, BABY. 236 00:10:06,367 --> 00:10:07,467 >> OH! 237 00:10:07,467 --> 00:10:09,167 >> SHE'S IN SO MUCH PAIN RIGHT 238 00:10:09,167 --> 00:10:10,767 NOW, BUT I'M HAPPY IT'S OVER 239 00:10:10,767 --> 00:10:12,533 WITH, AND AT LEAST I KNOW SHE'S 240 00:10:12,533 --> 00:10:15,200 GONNA BE HEALTHIER LIFE AND 241 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:16,633 SHE'LL BE ABLE TO LIVE. 242 00:10:16,633 --> 00:10:17,933 THAT'S ALL I WANT HER, IS TO 243 00:10:17,933 --> 00:10:20,133 LIVE AND ENJOY HER LIFE. 244 00:10:24,900 --> 00:10:26,333 ONCE WE GET HOME, SHE'S GOT A 245 00:10:26,333 --> 00:10:27,500 RECLINER. 246 00:10:27,667 --> 00:10:28,733 SHE CAN GET UP. 247 00:10:28,733 --> 00:10:30,600 >> AND TRY TO GET A WALKER JUST 248 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,133 TO PUSH AROUND UNTIL THE 249 00:10:32,133 --> 00:10:33,967 NUMBNESS COMES COMPLETELY OUT, 250 00:10:33,967 --> 00:10:35,767 'CAUSE I KNOW MY DAD CAN HOLD 251 00:10:35,767 --> 00:10:38,100 ME, BUT THERE'S JUST HIM THERE. 252 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:43,333 HE DIDN'T TELL ME THAT. 253 00:10:55,500 --> 00:10:57,100 ONCE I GET BACK INTO MY OWN 254 00:10:57,100 --> 00:10:59,733 ENVIRONMENT, I'LL BE BETTER. 255 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,467 >> YES. 256 00:11:04,467 --> 00:11:06,333 >> YOU'RE HURTING, OKAY? 257 00:11:06,333 --> 00:11:09,133 LET'S PROMISE TO GET UP, OKAY? 258 00:11:09,133 --> 00:11:10,700 IF WE JUST WALK TO HERE AND 259 00:11:10,700 --> 00:11:12,067 BACK, OKAY, WE'VE DONE 260 00:11:12,067 --> 00:11:12,767 SOMETHING. 261 00:11:12,767 --> 00:11:14,767 >> AFTER SURGERY, I WAS UPSET. 262 00:11:14,767 --> 00:11:16,633 I DIDN'T WANT TO DO NOTHING. 263 00:11:16,633 --> 00:11:18,733 I DIDN'T WANT TO TALK TO NOBODY. 264 00:11:18,733 --> 00:11:20,767 ALL I KNOW IS I WAS IN A LOT OF 265 00:11:20,767 --> 00:11:21,333 PAIN. 266 00:11:21,333 --> 00:11:22,867 >> WHEN SHE'S IN PAIN, SHE DON'T 267 00:11:22,867 --> 00:11:24,333 WANT NOBODY AROUND HER, NOBODY 268 00:11:24,333 --> 00:11:27,100 TOUCH HER. 269 00:11:27,267 --> 00:11:28,667 THEY'VE GOT TO TRY TO GET HER UP 270 00:11:28,667 --> 00:11:29,967 AND WALKING SO WE CAN GO HOME. 271 00:11:29,967 --> 00:11:31,333 WELL, LET'S JUST GET ON A SIDE, 272 00:11:31,333 --> 00:11:32,733 AND LET'S TRY TO GET UP AND JUST 273 00:11:32,733 --> 00:11:34,300 WALK JUST A FEW FEET. 274 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:38,300 >> WE'RE GONNA TRY TO GET YOU UP 275 00:11:38,300 --> 00:11:39,333 AND WALK, OKAY? 276 00:11:39,333 --> 00:11:45,133 THAT'S VERY IMPORTANT. 277 00:11:45,133 --> 00:11:46,667 >> I WISH WE COULD JUST TRY IT, 278 00:11:46,667 --> 00:11:47,467 TO BE HONEST. 279 00:11:47,467 --> 00:11:48,933 JUST WALK RIGHT TO THAT CHAIR 280 00:11:48,933 --> 00:11:49,533 AND BACK. 281 00:11:49,533 --> 00:11:51,067 >> BUT, MAMA, I DON'T HAVE NO 282 00:11:51,067 --> 00:11:51,500 ENERGY. 283 00:11:51,500 --> 00:11:52,833 >> I'M TRYING WITH ASHLEY. 284 00:11:52,833 --> 00:11:54,333 WE HAD OUR PROBLEMS, BUT WE'RE 285 00:11:54,333 --> 00:11:55,467 WORKING THROUGH THEM. 286 00:11:55,467 --> 00:11:57,133 I THINK EVERY MOTHER HAS A 287 00:11:57,133 --> 00:11:58,667 PROBLEM WITH THEIR KIDS. 288 00:11:58,667 --> 00:12:01,467 ASHLEY BLAMED ME FOR HER WEIGHT. 289 00:12:01,467 --> 00:12:02,900 BUT I DIDN'T FORCE HER TO EAT 290 00:12:02,900 --> 00:12:03,867 ANY OF THEM FOODS. 291 00:12:03,867 --> 00:12:05,067 YOU'RE DOING GOOD, ASH. 292 00:12:05,067 --> 00:12:06,200 KEEP IT UP, BABY. 293 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,067 I TOLD HER, "ONCE YOU HAVE THE 294 00:12:08,067 --> 00:12:09,967 SURGERY, THERE WILL BE NO COKES, 295 00:12:09,967 --> 00:12:11,700 NO CHIPS, NO COOKIES." 296 00:12:11,700 --> 00:12:13,067 SHE GOT MAD AT ME. 297 00:12:13,067 --> 00:12:14,600 OH, SHE GOT VERY MAD AT ME. 298 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:15,467 SHE'S A MESS. 299 00:12:15,467 --> 00:12:17,300 [ LAUGHS ] 300 00:12:17,300 --> 00:12:18,567 SEE? YOU DID GOOD. 301 00:12:18,567 --> 00:12:19,867 >> GOOD JOB, BABY! 302 00:12:19,867 --> 00:12:22,500 >> GOOD! WE'RE GETTING THERE. 303 00:12:27,667 --> 00:12:29,267 >> ASHLEY -- SHE'S DOING 304 00:12:29,267 --> 00:12:31,067 EXTREMELY WELL, BUT SHE WAS 305 00:12:31,067 --> 00:12:33,067 COMPLAINING MORE ABOUT BACK PAIN 306 00:12:33,067 --> 00:12:34,400 THAN ANYTHING ELSE. 307 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:35,767 TODAY, WE'RE GONNA SEND HER 308 00:12:35,767 --> 00:12:36,200 HOME. 309 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:37,567 SHE'S GONNA STAY ON LIQUID, 310 00:12:37,567 --> 00:12:39,067 AND WE'LL BE IN TOUCH AND SEE 311 00:12:39,067 --> 00:12:39,900 HOW SHE'S DOING. 312 00:12:39,900 --> 00:12:41,633 WELL, GOOD MORNING. 313 00:12:41,633 --> 00:12:42,933 >> AM I READY? 314 00:12:42,933 --> 00:12:43,900 >> YES, YOU ARE. 315 00:12:43,900 --> 00:12:45,467 >> [ GASPS ] YES! 316 00:12:45,467 --> 00:12:47,067 THANK YOU, LORD. 317 00:12:47,067 --> 00:12:50,733 I'M GOING HOME TODAY. 318 00:12:50,733 --> 00:12:52,367 IT WAS WORTH IT ALL TO GO 319 00:12:52,367 --> 00:12:54,233 THROUGH ALL THIS PAIN TO KNOW 320 00:12:54,233 --> 00:12:55,933 THAT I WILL LIVE A LONGER, 321 00:12:55,933 --> 00:12:57,867 HAPPIER LIFE, BUT IT'S JUST SO 322 00:12:57,867 --> 00:12:58,400 HARD. 323 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:00,300 I GOT SO MUCH BUBBLING UP IN MY 324 00:13:00,300 --> 00:13:01,600 BRAIN RIGHT NOW. 325 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:03,533 >> OKAY? 326 00:13:15,067 --> 00:13:16,667 >> I'M TRYING TO GET USED TO 327 00:13:16,667 --> 00:13:17,900 USING MY BODY AGAIN. 328 00:13:17,900 --> 00:13:19,533 AND I'M DOING GOOD. 329 00:13:19,533 --> 00:13:21,600 I WEIGH 527 NOW. 330 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:23,900 I DO MY LITTLE EXERCISE ON THE 331 00:13:23,900 --> 00:13:24,767 COUCH. 332 00:13:24,767 --> 00:13:26,633 I DO SOME LITTLE STRETCHES AND 333 00:13:26,633 --> 00:13:28,600 STUFF, AND I JUST TRY TO GET THE 334 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:30,300 BACK TO, HOPEFULLY, UN-NUMB 335 00:13:30,300 --> 00:13:31,367 ONE DAY. 336 00:13:31,533 --> 00:13:32,633 THEN, I GET UP. 337 00:13:32,633 --> 00:13:34,267 I WALK ALL THE WAY TO THE 338 00:13:34,267 --> 00:13:37,700 END OF MY CAR. 339 00:13:37,700 --> 00:13:39,100 FOR THE FIRST TIME IN A LONG 340 00:13:39,100 --> 00:13:40,567 TIME, I COULD SEE MYSELF BEING 341 00:13:40,567 --> 00:13:41,067 ACTIVE. 342 00:13:41,067 --> 00:13:42,567 I'M GONNA GET BACK INTO SPORTS 343 00:13:42,567 --> 00:13:43,067 AGAIN. 344 00:13:43,067 --> 00:13:44,433 WHEN I WAS LITTLE, I PLAYED 345 00:13:44,433 --> 00:13:46,067 SOFTBALL IN THE SUMMERTIME, AND 346 00:13:46,067 --> 00:13:47,367 THEN I JUST DIDN'T HAVE THE 347 00:13:47,367 --> 00:13:48,200 ENERGY FOR IT. 348 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:49,567 AND THEN, BY THE TIME I GOT TO 349 00:13:49,567 --> 00:13:50,900 HIGH SCHOOL, I JUST DIDN'T DO 350 00:13:50,900 --> 00:13:52,300 SPORTS NO MORE. 351 00:13:52,300 --> 00:13:54,900 WHAT I REALLY WANT TO DO IS PLAY 352 00:13:54,900 --> 00:13:57,100 SOFTBALL AGAIN. 353 00:13:57,100 --> 00:13:59,067 IT'S GONNA TAKE ME TIME. 354 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:05,100 >> HOW ARE YOU DOING? 355 00:14:05,100 --> 00:14:05,967 >> I'M OKAY. 356 00:14:05,967 --> 00:14:07,633 HOW IS THE LEG? DOING OKAY? 357 00:14:07,633 --> 00:14:09,300 >> YEAH. I'VE BEEN HAVING A 358 00:14:09,300 --> 00:14:10,700 LITTLE PAIN SOMETIMES. 359 00:14:10,700 --> 00:14:12,567 >> ANY CHANGES IN YOUR CLOTHING 360 00:14:12,567 --> 00:14:13,100 SIZE? 361 00:14:13,100 --> 00:14:15,067 >> NO, NO, I'M STILL WEARING THE 362 00:14:15,067 --> 00:14:16,567 SAME CLOTHES, BUT THEY'RE 363 00:14:16,567 --> 00:14:19,067 GETTING A LITTLE BIG. 364 00:14:19,067 --> 00:14:20,333 >> EVEN. YES. 365 00:14:20,333 --> 00:14:21,367 >> OKAY. 366 00:14:21,367 --> 00:14:23,267 YOU KNOW, THE WEIGHT LOSS IS 367 00:14:23,267 --> 00:14:25,333 GONNA GO SLOWLY FROM THIS POINT 368 00:14:25,333 --> 00:14:25,767 ON. 369 00:14:25,767 --> 00:14:27,667 >> YES, THAT'S WHAT I THINK. 370 00:14:27,667 --> 00:14:28,867 'CAUSE I WENT TO WEIGH 371 00:14:28,867 --> 00:14:30,367 YESTERDAY, AND WHAT I WEIGHED 372 00:14:30,367 --> 00:14:31,967 BEFORE, TWO WEEKS AGO, I STAYED 373 00:14:31,967 --> 00:14:32,967 THE SAME. 374 00:14:33,133 --> 00:14:34,167 I HAVE A QUESTION. 375 00:14:34,167 --> 00:14:35,633 SOMETIMES WHEN IT'S TIME TO 376 00:14:35,633 --> 00:14:37,167 EAT, I DON'T HAVE AN APPETITE 377 00:14:37,167 --> 00:14:37,733 TO EAT. 378 00:14:37,733 --> 00:14:38,633 I'M NOT HUNGRY. 379 00:14:38,633 --> 00:14:40,100 >> WELL, THAT'S THE WHOLE IDEA 380 00:14:40,100 --> 00:14:41,367 OF HAVING THIS OPERATION. 381 00:14:41,367 --> 00:14:42,800 YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT 382 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:43,133 IT. 383 00:14:43,133 --> 00:14:44,567 MAKE SURE THAT YOU GET ENOUGH 384 00:14:44,567 --> 00:14:45,133 FLUID... 385 00:14:45,133 --> 00:14:46,100 >> YES, SIR, I DO. 386 00:14:46,100 --> 00:14:47,367 >> ...AND ENOUGH PROTEIN. 387 00:14:47,367 --> 00:14:48,067 >> YES, SIR. 388 00:14:48,067 --> 00:14:49,367 >> OKAY. WE'LL SEE YOU LATER. 389 00:14:49,367 --> 00:14:50,233 >> ALL RIGHT. 390 00:14:50,233 --> 00:14:51,633 >> HER ATTITUDE HAS JUST 391 00:14:51,633 --> 00:14:53,333 CHANGED 'CAUSE ASHLEY WOULD BE 392 00:14:53,333 --> 00:14:55,467 VERY MEAN. 393 00:14:55,467 --> 00:14:56,400 >> AW. 394 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:58,333 >> NO, I'M BEING HONEST, ASHLEY. 395 00:15:00,067 --> 00:15:00,967 >> PART OF IT WAS HER. 396 00:15:00,967 --> 00:15:01,600 >> I KNOW IT. 397 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:02,867 IN PART, YOU BLAME ME FOR YOUR 398 00:15:02,867 --> 00:15:05,533 WEIGHT, WHICH I AM USED TO THAT. 399 00:15:08,733 --> 00:15:10,133 >> THEY BLAMED IT ON YOU... 400 00:15:10,133 --> 00:15:10,600 >> NO. 401 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:11,400 >> ...NOT ME. 402 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:12,867 >> NO, I'M THE ONE WHO -- YOU 403 00:15:12,867 --> 00:15:13,433 GOT MAD. 404 00:15:13,433 --> 00:15:14,933 YOU SAID I'M THE ONE WHO MADE 405 00:15:14,933 --> 00:15:15,500 YOU FAT. 406 00:15:15,500 --> 00:15:16,200 >> [ SCOFFS ] 407 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:17,067 >> NO, I DIDN'T. 408 00:15:17,067 --> 00:15:18,233 I DIDN'T FORCE THAT FOOD IN 409 00:15:18,233 --> 00:15:18,833 YOUR MOUTH. 410 00:15:18,833 --> 00:15:19,967 >> WHATEVER. 411 00:15:19,967 --> 00:15:22,333 [ SIGHS ] 412 00:15:33,933 --> 00:15:35,967 >> HAPPY BIRTHDAY! 413 00:15:35,967 --> 00:15:37,900 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 414 00:15:37,900 --> 00:15:39,933 >> YEAH, THAT IS PRETTY. 415 00:15:46,067 --> 00:15:47,200 [ LAUGHTER ] 416 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:48,300 >> IT DOES FIT. 417 00:15:48,300 --> 00:15:51,067 >> IT GOES OVER THAT FAR. 418 00:15:51,067 --> 00:15:51,733 >> ALL RIGHT! 419 00:15:51,733 --> 00:15:52,900 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 420 00:15:52,900 --> 00:15:54,267 >> IT'S BEEN A YEAR SINCE MY 421 00:15:54,267 --> 00:15:55,533 SURGERY, AND I CAN DO MORE 422 00:15:55,533 --> 00:15:57,067 THINGS NOW THAN WHAT I COULD DO 423 00:15:57,067 --> 00:15:58,167 LAST YEAR AT THIS TIME. 424 00:15:58,167 --> 00:16:01,067 I CAN WALK A LITTLE BIT BETTER. 425 00:16:01,067 --> 00:16:02,667 I CAN WEAR A SEAT BELT WITHOUT 426 00:16:02,667 --> 00:16:03,533 AN EXTENSION. 427 00:16:03,533 --> 00:16:05,067 I MEAN, MY CLOTHES FIT A LOT 428 00:16:05,067 --> 00:16:05,967 DIFFERENT NOW. 429 00:16:05,967 --> 00:16:07,767 FEEL REAL GOOD. 430 00:16:07,767 --> 00:16:09,400 >> JUST HER ATTITUDE HAS 431 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:10,167 CHANGED. 432 00:16:10,167 --> 00:16:12,133 WHEN SHE WAS SO HEAVY, SHE WAS 433 00:16:12,133 --> 00:16:14,133 JUST VERY ANGRY BECAUSE OF HER 434 00:16:14,133 --> 00:16:16,100 WEIGHT, AND THAT KEPT HER FROM 435 00:16:16,100 --> 00:16:17,600 DOING A LOT OF STUFF. 436 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:19,467 AND NOW SHE'S ABLE TO GET UP 437 00:16:19,467 --> 00:16:21,067 AND GO. 438 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:23,067 >> OVER THE PAST YEAR, SHE'S 439 00:16:23,067 --> 00:16:24,567 MORE OUTGOING. 440 00:16:24,733 --> 00:16:26,233 SHE'S CONSTANTLY GOING ALL THE 441 00:16:26,233 --> 00:16:26,633 TIME. 442 00:16:26,633 --> 00:16:27,967 I'LL BE GLAD WHEN SHE GETS 443 00:16:27,967 --> 00:16:30,167 FINISHED, THOUGH [LAUGHS] 444 00:16:30,167 --> 00:16:31,333 SHE GETS DOWN THERE WHERE SHE 445 00:16:31,333 --> 00:16:34,700 NEEDS TO BE AT. 446 00:16:34,700 --> 00:16:35,967 >> I'M GONNA EAT A LITTLE BIT -- 447 00:16:35,967 --> 00:16:37,100 A PIECE OF THAT -- A LITTLE 448 00:16:37,100 --> 00:16:37,467 PIECE. 449 00:16:37,467 --> 00:16:39,267 I DON'T THINK IT WILL HURT ME 450 00:16:39,267 --> 00:16:41,167 TOO BAD, JUST A LITTLE PIECE OF 451 00:16:41,167 --> 00:16:45,500 THE CORNER OF IT. 452 00:16:45,500 --> 00:16:47,833 I WANT TO MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE, 453 00:16:47,833 --> 00:16:50,400 BUT IT IS NOT EASY. 454 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:52,167 MY FAMILY HASN'T CHANGED IN WHAT 455 00:16:52,167 --> 00:16:52,833 THEY EAT. 456 00:16:52,833 --> 00:16:54,367 IT IS HARD BEING AROUND ALL 457 00:16:54,367 --> 00:16:55,800 THESE FOODS ALL THE TIME. 458 00:16:55,800 --> 00:17:00,367 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 459 00:17:00,367 --> 00:17:02,267 I CAN'T GO BACK TO MY OLD 460 00:17:02,267 --> 00:17:03,067 HABITS. 461 00:17:03,067 --> 00:17:04,467 I HAVE TO TEACH MYSELF NEW 462 00:17:04,467 --> 00:17:05,067 HABITS. 463 00:17:05,067 --> 00:17:06,667 >> WHAT FLAVOR ICE CREAM DO YOU 464 00:17:06,667 --> 00:17:07,500 WANT, ASHLEY? 465 00:17:07,500 --> 00:17:09,300 >> I DON'T WANT NO ICE CREAM. 466 00:17:09,300 --> 00:17:10,600 BUT I'M NOT OUT OF THE WOODS 467 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:12,533 YET. 468 00:17:23,433 --> 00:17:25,133 >> WHEN YOU WEIGH 600 POUNDS, 469 00:17:25,133 --> 00:17:26,833 IT'S EASY TO CUT YOURSELF OFF 470 00:17:26,833 --> 00:17:27,833 FROM THE WORLD. 471 00:17:27,833 --> 00:17:30,400 YOU DON'T HAVE A LIFE. 472 00:17:30,567 --> 00:17:32,233 AFTER LOSING THE WEIGHT, IT WAS 473 00:17:32,233 --> 00:17:33,700 A CHALLENGE TO GET BACK OUT 474 00:17:33,700 --> 00:17:39,800 THERE AGAIN. 475 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,433 I'M HAPPY I DID THE SURGERY. 476 00:17:42,433 --> 00:17:43,867 I'M GETTING OUT IN THE WORLD. 477 00:17:46,933 --> 00:17:49,233 I'VE LOST 132 POUNDS. 478 00:17:49,233 --> 00:17:51,733 I'M AT 485 RIGHT NOW. 479 00:17:51,900 --> 00:17:53,333 IN MY CAR, I CAN PULL MY 480 00:17:53,333 --> 00:17:55,167 STEERING WHEEL DOWN FARTHER THAN 481 00:17:55,167 --> 00:17:55,767 BEFORE. 482 00:17:55,767 --> 00:17:57,433 IT USED TO HAVE TO BE ALL THE 483 00:17:57,433 --> 00:17:58,533 WAY UP LIKE THIS. 484 00:17:58,533 --> 00:18:00,700 NOW I CAN HAVE IT DOWN LIKE THIS 485 00:18:00,700 --> 00:18:02,533 AND STILL DRIVE WHERE I CAN 486 00:18:02,533 --> 00:18:04,467 STILL MOVE MY WHEEL AND DRIVE 487 00:18:04,467 --> 00:18:06,933 SAFELY. 488 00:18:06,933 --> 00:18:08,500 I JUST LOVE THE NEW WAY I CAN 489 00:18:08,500 --> 00:18:08,967 WALK. 490 00:18:08,967 --> 00:18:10,600 I CAN WALK A LITTLE BIT LONGER 491 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:12,233 EACH DAY WHEN I DO MY EXERCISE 492 00:18:12,233 --> 00:18:15,500 AND MY WALKING. 493 00:18:15,500 --> 00:18:17,067 MY WEIGHT LOSS IS COMING OFF 494 00:18:17,067 --> 00:18:17,767 REAL FAST. 495 00:18:17,767 --> 00:18:19,500 THE DOCTOR -- HE SAID, THE LAST 496 00:18:19,500 --> 00:18:21,167 TIME HE SAW ME, MY STOMACH HAD 497 00:18:21,167 --> 00:18:21,967 FALLEN MORE. 498 00:18:21,967 --> 00:18:23,533 HE SAID, IT'S TIME TO DO THE 499 00:18:23,533 --> 00:18:25,400 SURGERY. 500 00:18:42,900 --> 00:18:44,700 >> I'VE NEVER SEEN HER WITHOUT 501 00:18:44,700 --> 00:18:46,400 HER STOMACH, YOU KNOW, BEING 502 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,133 THAT -- DROOPING THAT -- IT'S 503 00:18:48,133 --> 00:18:49,333 ALWAYS BEEN THERE. 504 00:18:49,333 --> 00:18:50,833 I'M JUST SO EXCITED. 505 00:18:50,833 --> 00:18:52,867 >> I'M GLAD THAT SHE'S HAVING IT 506 00:18:52,867 --> 00:18:54,667 DONE NOW, BECAUSE HER DAD IS 507 00:18:54,667 --> 00:18:56,433 GETTING READY TO GO BACK TO 508 00:18:56,433 --> 00:18:58,733 IRAQ, I THINK, AND GO TO WORK. 509 00:18:58,900 --> 00:19:00,567 AND I'M GLAD THAT HE'S GONNA GET 510 00:19:00,567 --> 00:19:03,700 TO SEE THIS BEFORE HE LEAVES. 511 00:19:08,733 --> 00:19:10,333 >> SHE CAN'T EAT FRIED CHICKEN. 512 00:19:10,333 --> 00:19:11,300 >> YEAH, WE CAN. 513 00:19:11,300 --> 00:19:12,400 >> SHE CAN'T EAT IT. 514 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:13,933 >> SHE CAN TAKE THE SKIN OFF. 515 00:19:13,933 --> 00:19:15,333 >> Tsk. [ SIGHS ] 516 00:19:15,333 --> 00:19:16,967 >> THAT'S THE GOOD PART, ISN'T 517 00:19:16,967 --> 00:19:17,733 IT, ASHLEY? 518 00:19:17,733 --> 00:19:19,367 >> YEAH, THAT'S THE GOOD PART. 519 00:19:19,367 --> 00:19:20,333 I'M PRETTY SORE. 520 00:19:20,333 --> 00:19:21,467 I'M GONNA TELL YOU. 521 00:19:21,467 --> 00:19:23,067 SO DON'T RUSH ME LIKE YOU DID 522 00:19:23,067 --> 00:19:23,767 LAST TIME. 523 00:19:23,767 --> 00:19:25,133 I COME HOME, SHE'S TELLING ME, 524 00:19:25,133 --> 00:19:26,267 "YOU NEED TO WALK MORE." 525 00:19:26,267 --> 00:19:28,467 I SAID, "ME AND DADDY WALK." 526 00:19:29,133 --> 00:19:31,833 HEY, AT LEAST I WAS WALKING. 527 00:19:36,067 --> 00:19:37,500 >> SHE HAD AN ACCIDENT BECAUSE 528 00:19:37,500 --> 00:19:38,733 HER BOWELS STARTED GOING. 529 00:19:38,733 --> 00:19:40,200 AND I WAS GONNA TAKE THE WATER 530 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:41,667 HOSE AND JUST SQUIRT HER DOWN. 531 00:19:41,667 --> 00:19:43,100 >> WELL, JUST THINK -- LUCKY I 532 00:19:43,100 --> 00:19:44,567 DIDN'T WALK THROUGH THE HOUSE. 533 00:19:44,567 --> 00:19:45,267 >> [ LAUGHS ] 534 00:19:45,267 --> 00:19:46,100 "OH, I CAN'T GO. 535 00:19:46,100 --> 00:19:47,133 GET RID OF THE CHAIR. 536 00:19:47,133 --> 00:19:48,200 GET RID OF THE CHAIR." 537 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:50,400 [ LAUGHTER ] 538 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:51,533 "GET RID OF THE CHAIR. 539 00:19:51,533 --> 00:19:52,667 GET RID OF THE CHAIR." 540 00:19:52,667 --> 00:19:54,200 >> STOP LAUGHING AT IT, THOUGH. 541 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,767 >> ASHLEY, ASHLEY, IT'S 542 00:19:56,767 --> 00:19:59,333 STILL FUNNY. 543 00:19:59,333 --> 00:20:02,333 [ LAUGHS ] 544 00:20:02,333 --> 00:20:04,267 >> I REALLY DON'T UNDERSTAND MY 545 00:20:04,267 --> 00:20:05,300 MOM SOMETIMES. 546 00:20:05,300 --> 00:20:07,300 IT SEEMS LIKE SHE HAS NO IDEA 547 00:20:07,300 --> 00:20:08,967 WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH. 548 00:20:08,967 --> 00:20:11,633 I'M TRYING REALLY HARD TO CHANGE 549 00:20:11,633 --> 00:20:14,300 MY LIFE, BUT I FEEL LIKE I'M ALL 550 00:20:14,300 --> 00:20:15,100 ALONE. 551 00:20:15,100 --> 00:20:17,000 >> TAKE YOUR TIME. 552 00:20:17,167 --> 00:20:19,200 WE WON'T START WITHOUT YOU. 553 00:20:35,433 --> 00:20:38,033 >> ASHLEY'S PROGRESS HAS BEEN 554 00:20:38,033 --> 00:20:43,167 SLOW BUT STEADY. 555 00:20:43,167 --> 00:20:45,067 REMOVING EXCESS SKIN IS GONNA 556 00:20:45,067 --> 00:20:47,033 HELP HER MOBILITY. 557 00:20:55,100 --> 00:20:57,433 WE REMOVED 43 POUNDS OF EXCESS 558 00:20:57,433 --> 00:21:03,367 SKIN. 559 00:21:03,367 --> 00:21:05,567 I'M HOPING THAT REMOVAL OF 560 00:21:05,567 --> 00:21:07,533 EXCESS SKIN IS GOING TO 561 00:21:07,533 --> 00:21:10,167 ENCOURAGE HER TO MAKE PROGRESS. 562 00:21:23,933 --> 00:21:24,967 >> HAS THE DOCTOR TOLD YOU HOW 563 00:21:24,967 --> 00:21:25,800 SMALL HE WANTS YOU TO BE? 564 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:26,833 >> YEAH, HE WANTS ME GET DOWN TO 565 00:21:26,833 --> 00:21:28,067 200. 566 00:21:28,167 --> 00:21:29,867 AND I LOOKED AT HIM WHEN HE 567 00:21:29,867 --> 00:21:32,467 SAID -- "200, MAN? 200? 568 00:21:32,467 --> 00:21:33,867 I AIN'T WEIGHED 200 POUNDS 569 00:21:33,867 --> 00:21:35,233 SINCE JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL." 570 00:21:35,233 --> 00:21:37,633 >> HE WANTS ME AT 220 POUNDS, 571 00:21:37,633 --> 00:21:40,267 AND I TOLD HIM I WANT TO BE 250, 572 00:21:40,267 --> 00:21:41,767 275, SOMEWHERE IN THERE. 573 00:21:41,767 --> 00:21:42,733 I'M 6'6", SO -- 574 00:21:42,733 --> 00:21:45,467 >> I'M 5'7". HE TOLD ME 164. 575 00:21:45,467 --> 00:21:47,367 [ LAUGHS ] 576 00:21:47,367 --> 00:21:49,200 >> THIS -- I'M GETTING USED TO 577 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,967 THIS BEING GONE, MY BIG THING 578 00:21:50,967 --> 00:21:52,900 THAT HAS BEEN HERE AND IT'S GONE 579 00:21:52,900 --> 00:21:53,867 NOW. 580 00:21:54,067 --> 00:21:55,067 I NEED BOTH HANDS. 581 00:21:55,067 --> 00:21:56,267 >> [ GROANS ] 582 00:21:56,267 --> 00:21:57,433 OH, IT'S BEEN GREAT. 583 00:21:57,433 --> 00:21:59,467 SHE'S BEEN GETTING OUT. 584 00:21:59,467 --> 00:22:01,100 BEEN VERY ACTIVE. 585 00:22:01,100 --> 00:22:02,067 KIND OF HARD TO KEEP HER AT 586 00:22:02,067 --> 00:22:02,300 HOME. 587 00:22:02,300 --> 00:22:03,267 SHE ALWAYS WANTS TO BE ON THE 588 00:22:03,267 --> 00:22:05,867 RUN. 589 00:22:05,867 --> 00:22:07,267 >> DO I NEED TO LAY BACK WHILE 590 00:22:07,267 --> 00:22:07,967 YOU DO THESE? 591 00:22:07,967 --> 00:22:09,333 >> LET ME JUST TAKE THESE THE 592 00:22:09,333 --> 00:22:10,633 WAY YOU ARE RIGHT NOW, OKAY? 593 00:22:10,633 --> 00:22:11,267 >> OKAY. 594 00:22:11,267 --> 00:22:13,067 >> AND THEN WE'LL GO FROM THERE. 595 00:22:13,067 --> 00:22:14,733 PROBABLY FEEL A LOT BETTER NOW 596 00:22:14,733 --> 00:22:16,500 THAT ALL THESE STAPLES ARE GONNA 597 00:22:16,500 --> 00:22:17,133 BE GONE. 598 00:22:17,133 --> 00:22:20,167 >> MM-HMM. 599 00:22:20,167 --> 00:22:20,800 IT'S WEIRD. 600 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,267 IT'S VERY WEIRD FOR THIS PART OF 601 00:22:22,267 --> 00:22:23,333 MY STOMACH TO BE GONE. 602 00:22:23,333 --> 00:22:24,167 IT'S VERY WEIRD. 603 00:22:24,167 --> 00:22:25,667 WHEN I USED TO SIT, I USED TO 604 00:22:25,667 --> 00:22:27,333 ALWAYS PUT MY HAND ON MY STOMACH 605 00:22:27,333 --> 00:22:28,233 AREA DOWN HERE. 606 00:22:28,233 --> 00:22:29,700 IT'S JUST OPENED A LOT OF, I 607 00:22:29,700 --> 00:22:31,267 GUESS, AIR TO GET PLACES WHERE 608 00:22:31,267 --> 00:22:32,633 AIR HAS NEVER BEEN BEFORE. 609 00:22:32,633 --> 00:22:35,967 IT'S JUST WEIRD. 610 00:22:35,967 --> 00:22:38,333 >> ASHLEY -- HER INCISION NOW 611 00:22:38,333 --> 00:22:40,833 ARE HEALING, BUT AT THIS POINT, 612 00:22:40,833 --> 00:22:44,500 SHE HAS NOT LOST ENOUGH WEIGHT. 613 00:22:44,500 --> 00:22:47,067 SHE IS STILL HAVING ISSUES WITH 614 00:22:47,067 --> 00:22:49,133 THE CHOICE OF THE FOOD AND 615 00:22:49,133 --> 00:22:50,233 OVEREATING. 616 00:22:50,233 --> 00:22:52,467 >> THEY'RE OUT. THANK GOD. 617 00:22:52,467 --> 00:22:55,067 >> HER MOTHER IS ALSO BATTLING 618 00:22:55,067 --> 00:22:57,500 WITH WEIGHT, AND I THINK THE 619 00:22:57,500 --> 00:23:00,100 FAMILY THAT ARE ACCUSTOMED TO 620 00:23:00,100 --> 00:23:02,833 HIGH-CALORIE FOOD, IT'S GONNA BE 621 00:23:02,833 --> 00:23:05,567 A DIFFICULT ISSUE FOR ONE PERSON 622 00:23:05,567 --> 00:23:07,200 TO MAKE A CHANGE. 623 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,133 WE HAVE MADE WEIGHT LOSS ON HER, 624 00:23:09,133 --> 00:23:11,067 BUT I DON'T THINK WE HAVE MADE A 625 00:23:11,067 --> 00:23:12,733 CHANGE OF THE LIFESTYLE AND 626 00:23:12,733 --> 00:23:14,067 DIETARY HABIT. 627 00:23:14,067 --> 00:23:16,400 THAT'S GOING TO BE A CONSTANT 628 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:17,233 BATTLE. 629 00:23:17,233 --> 00:23:19,333 >> LOOK, DADDY, I CAN MOVE. 630 00:23:19,333 --> 00:23:20,400 I GOT NO STAPLES. 631 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,467 >> BUT STILL WE NEED TO BRING 632 00:23:22,467 --> 00:23:24,567 IT DOWN TO A TARGET WEIGHT OF 633 00:23:24,567 --> 00:23:26,500 200 OR LESS. 634 00:23:30,900 --> 00:23:32,067 >> STARTING TO LOSE ALL THIS 635 00:23:32,067 --> 00:23:33,833 WEIGHT, I WAS SO HAPPY. 636 00:23:34,067 --> 00:23:36,067 I WAS STARTING TO GET OUT MORE. 637 00:23:36,067 --> 00:23:37,900 I COULD DO THINGS THAT I WOULD 638 00:23:37,900 --> 00:23:38,900 NOT DO BEFORE. 639 00:23:38,900 --> 00:23:40,433 I WASN'T BEING SHELTERED 640 00:23:40,433 --> 00:23:42,367 NO MORE. 641 00:23:53,267 --> 00:23:54,600 >> BOUQUET'S IN THE CAR. 642 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,067 MY NECKLACE IS IN THE CAR, 643 00:23:56,067 --> 00:23:57,567 JACKET. 644 00:23:57,567 --> 00:23:58,633 OKAY. 645 00:23:58,633 --> 00:24:01,100 I GOT EVERYTHING. 646 00:24:01,100 --> 00:24:02,167 [ SIGHS ] 647 00:24:06,467 --> 00:24:07,500 >> ASHLEY LOOKS GOOD TODAY. 648 00:24:07,500 --> 00:24:09,267 >> I KNOW. DOESN'T SHE? 649 00:24:09,267 --> 00:24:11,400 I HAVEN'T SEEN ASHLEY DRESSED 650 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:13,300 LIKE THIS SINCE HER PROM. 651 00:24:13,300 --> 00:24:15,600 >> OH, I LOVE MY DRESS. 652 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:16,867 I'M HAPPY. 653 00:24:16,867 --> 00:24:19,767 I'M HAPPY FOR HER, TOO, AND... 654 00:24:19,767 --> 00:24:21,067 JUST HAPPY. 655 00:24:21,067 --> 00:24:22,133 I DON'T THINK I'D HAVE BEEN ABLE 656 00:24:22,133 --> 00:24:23,167 TO DO THIS BEFORE THE SURGERY. 657 00:24:23,167 --> 00:24:24,300 I WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO STAND VERY 658 00:24:24,300 --> 00:24:25,200 LONG. 659 00:24:25,367 --> 00:24:26,267 >> AND SHE'S JUST THE MOST 660 00:24:26,267 --> 00:24:27,367 BEAUTIFUL PERSON I'VE EVER SEEN, 661 00:24:27,367 --> 00:24:29,633 BESIDES THE BRIDE. 662 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,700 >> I NOW PRONOUNCE YOU HUSBAND 663 00:24:31,700 --> 00:24:32,467 AND WIFE. 664 00:24:32,467 --> 00:24:35,800 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 665 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,333 >> SHE DID WONDERFUL, WALKING, 666 00:24:38,333 --> 00:24:41,067 EVERYTHING. 667 00:24:41,067 --> 00:24:42,367 OH, THEY'RE SHOWING THEIR LEGS. 668 00:24:42,367 --> 00:24:43,833 [ LAUGHS ] 669 00:24:43,833 --> 00:24:45,333 SHE EVEN WENT OUT TO THE CLUB 670 00:24:45,333 --> 00:24:46,233 WITH HER SISTER. 671 00:24:46,233 --> 00:24:47,633 AND THEY CALLED ME AND THEY 672 00:24:47,633 --> 00:24:49,200 SAID, "MAMA, SOME GUY'S HITTING 673 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:49,900 ON ASHLEY." 674 00:24:49,900 --> 00:24:51,200 I SAID, "WHAT?" 675 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,167 AND THAT REALLY MADE HER DAY. 676 00:24:55,067 --> 00:24:57,600 >> MY SHOES ARE KILLING ME. 677 00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:58,967 >> RUN. 678 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,933 [ UP-TEMPO MUSIC PLAYING ] 679 00:25:04,933 --> 00:25:07,333 [ INDISTINCT CONVERSATIONS ] 680 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:14,667 >> YOU WILL DANCE. 681 00:25:14,667 --> 00:25:15,467 YOU DON'T HAVE A CHOICE. 682 00:25:15,467 --> 00:25:17,300 LET'S DANCE. 683 00:25:17,467 --> 00:25:19,667 >> I'D NEVER GO DANCING BEFORE. 684 00:25:19,667 --> 00:25:20,933 I WAS AFRAID I WOULD FALL AND 685 00:25:20,933 --> 00:25:26,533 COULD NOT GET BACK UP. 686 00:25:26,533 --> 00:25:28,833 NOW I HAVE SO MUCH ENERGY TO 687 00:25:28,833 --> 00:25:32,700 GET OUT AND DO STUFF. 688 00:25:32,700 --> 00:25:34,733 I CAN GET OUT AND DO WHATEVER I 689 00:25:34,733 --> 00:25:36,567 WANT. 690 00:25:41,533 --> 00:25:42,900 >> SURPRISED SHE LASTED THAT 691 00:25:42,900 --> 00:25:43,333 LONG. 692 00:25:43,333 --> 00:25:47,667 [ LAUGHS ] 693 00:25:47,667 --> 00:25:49,633 SHE'S DOING GOOD, BUT I'M JUST 694 00:25:49,633 --> 00:25:51,733 CONCERNED SHE MIGHT BE CHEATING. 695 00:25:51,733 --> 00:25:53,700 SHE HAS GAINED WEIGHT. 696 00:25:53,700 --> 00:25:54,800 SHE SAID 30 POUNDS. 697 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:55,733 IT MIGHT BE 40. 698 00:25:55,733 --> 00:25:57,900 I'M NOT FOR SURE. 699 00:25:57,900 --> 00:25:59,400 I'D ASK HER, "ASHLEY, YOU'RE 700 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:00,900 NOT SUPPOSED TO EAT THESE." 701 00:26:00,900 --> 00:26:02,533 AND SHE SAID, "MOM, I KNOW WHAT 702 00:26:02,533 --> 00:26:05,300 I'M DOING." 703 00:26:05,300 --> 00:26:06,633 BUT, YOU KNOW, YOU CAN'T JUST 704 00:26:06,633 --> 00:26:09,467 WATCH HER ALL THE TIME. 705 00:26:09,467 --> 00:26:10,667 I'M JUST REALLY CONCERNED SHE'S 706 00:26:10,667 --> 00:26:11,867 GONNA BE BACK IN HER OLD HABITS 707 00:26:11,867 --> 00:26:15,500 AGAIN. 708 00:26:15,500 --> 00:26:18,200 >> MMM! 709 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:19,633 >> DR. NOWZARADAN SAID, "YOU 710 00:26:19,633 --> 00:26:21,067 ALWAYS ARE GONNA HAVE A FOOD 711 00:26:21,067 --> 00:26:22,600 ADDICTION FOR THE REST OF YOUR 712 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:23,067 LIFE." 713 00:26:23,067 --> 00:26:24,467 IT'S ALWAYS GONNA BE THERE. 714 00:26:24,467 --> 00:26:26,733 IT'S NEVER GONNA GO AWAY. 715 00:26:37,067 --> 00:26:38,067 >> WHAT TIME IS YOUR 716 00:26:38,067 --> 00:26:39,067 ORIENTATION, 5:30? 717 00:26:39,067 --> 00:26:40,467 SHE HARDLY EVER STAYS HOME SINCE 718 00:26:40,467 --> 00:26:42,200 SHE GOT HER NEW TRUCK. 719 00:26:42,367 --> 00:26:43,400 SHE'S BEEN GOING OUT WITH HER 720 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,900 FRIENDS, GONE DANG NEAR ALL DAY. 721 00:26:53,133 --> 00:26:54,367 >> BEFORE SHE STARTED COLLEGE, 722 00:26:54,367 --> 00:26:55,567 SHE HAD DROPPED OUT OF SCHOOL 723 00:26:55,567 --> 00:26:56,700 BECAUSE SHE COULDN'T SIT ON 724 00:26:56,700 --> 00:26:57,933 THEIR CHAIRS. 725 00:26:58,100 --> 00:26:59,767 IT'S HARD FOR HER TO WALK AND 726 00:26:59,767 --> 00:27:00,800 GET TO CLASSES. 727 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,433 NOW SHE'S ABLE TO GO, SIT IN 728 00:27:02,433 --> 00:27:03,833 THE CHAIRS. 729 00:27:04,067 --> 00:27:05,667 SHE'S DOING WONDERFUL, GETTING 730 00:27:05,667 --> 00:27:09,367 AROUND AND JUST GOING. 731 00:27:09,367 --> 00:27:11,067 >> WHEN I WAS IN SCHOOL BEFORE, 732 00:27:11,067 --> 00:27:12,833 GETTING AROUND, JUST DIDN'T HAVE 733 00:27:12,833 --> 00:27:14,067 THE ENERGY TO DO IT. 734 00:27:14,067 --> 00:27:15,800 NOW MY NERVOUS PART ABOUT GOING 735 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:17,567 BACK TO SCHOOL IS, "AM I GONNA 736 00:27:17,567 --> 00:27:19,167 FIT IN THE SEAT OR IS THERE 737 00:27:19,167 --> 00:27:22,867 GONNA BE A PROBLEM OR WHAT? 738 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:25,667 >> WELL, I'D LIKE TO WELCOME YOU 739 00:27:25,667 --> 00:27:28,767 ALL HERE TO LAB ORIENTATION. 740 00:27:28,933 --> 00:27:30,367 >> I'M GOING TO SCHOOL, WORKING 741 00:27:30,367 --> 00:27:31,733 TO GET MY ASSOCIATE DEGREE IN 742 00:27:31,733 --> 00:27:32,333 CHILDCARE. 743 00:27:32,333 --> 00:27:34,533 AFTER I GET THIS DEGREE, WHAT I 744 00:27:34,533 --> 00:27:36,367 WANT TO DO IS OPEN MY OWN 745 00:27:36,367 --> 00:27:37,167 DAYCARE. 746 00:27:37,167 --> 00:27:38,900 OWNING MY OWN DAYCARE HAS BEEN A 747 00:27:38,900 --> 00:27:40,367 DREAM EVER SINCE I STARTED 748 00:27:40,367 --> 00:27:41,667 WORKING WITH CHILDREN. 749 00:27:41,667 --> 00:27:43,267 I SAID, "THIS IS MY CALLING." 750 00:27:43,267 --> 00:27:44,800 NOW I'M GOING TO SCHOOL, AND 751 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:46,500 ONCE I START MY BUSINESS UP, GO 752 00:27:46,500 --> 00:27:47,267 FROM THERE. 753 00:27:47,267 --> 00:27:48,400 >> HOW YOU BEEN DOING? 754 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:49,967 HAVEN'T SEEN YOU IN A LONG TIME. 755 00:27:49,967 --> 00:27:51,100 ARE YOU WORKING AT A CENTER? 756 00:27:51,100 --> 00:27:51,967 >> NO, NOT RIGHT NOW. 757 00:27:51,967 --> 00:27:53,100 >> NOT RIGHT NOW. ALL RIGHT. 758 00:27:53,100 --> 00:27:54,600 YOU KNOW WE HAVE THE BOARD 759 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:56,300 THERE, SO WHEN YOU'RE READY TO 760 00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:58,067 GO BACK TO WORK, YOU CAN TAKE A 761 00:27:58,067 --> 00:28:00,400 LOOK THERE. 762 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:01,933 SHE'S LOOKING GREAT. 763 00:28:02,100 --> 00:28:03,800 IT IS GOING TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE 764 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:05,333 FOR HER, I BET, AS SHE WORKS 765 00:28:05,333 --> 00:28:07,067 WITH THE CHILDREN, BECAUSE BEING 766 00:28:07,067 --> 00:28:08,700 ABLE TO GET DOWN ON THEIR LEVEL 767 00:28:08,700 --> 00:28:12,800 IS REALLY SO IMPORTANT. 768 00:28:12,967 --> 00:28:15,133 >> I FEEL REALLY GOOD. 769 00:28:15,133 --> 00:28:17,500 I WASN'T HAVING TO MOVE BECAUSE 770 00:28:17,500 --> 00:28:19,867 MY LEGS GET STIFF OR SOMETHING, 771 00:28:19,867 --> 00:28:22,167 YOU KNOW, AND PEOPLE COULD FIT 772 00:28:22,167 --> 00:28:24,733 BEHIND ME OKAY. 773 00:28:24,733 --> 00:28:26,433 I'M VERY EXCITED TO GET CLOSER 774 00:28:26,433 --> 00:28:27,267 TO MY DREAM. 775 00:28:27,267 --> 00:28:31,867 IT'S FINALLY GONNA GET DONE. 776 00:28:31,867 --> 00:28:33,633 >> WELL, HOW WAS IT? 777 00:28:33,633 --> 00:28:34,700 >> IT WAS OKAY. 778 00:28:34,700 --> 00:28:36,633 >> [ LAUGHS ] 779 00:28:45,567 --> 00:28:47,467 [ INDISTINCT CONVERSATION ] 780 00:28:57,067 --> 00:28:57,867 >> HEY! 781 00:28:57,867 --> 00:28:58,767 >> HEY! 782 00:28:58,767 --> 00:29:01,067 SO, THE GOAL IS TO GET YOU UNDER 783 00:29:01,067 --> 00:29:01,733 200. 784 00:29:01,733 --> 00:29:02,333 >> YES, SIR. 785 00:29:02,333 --> 00:29:03,433 >> ARE YOU EXCITED TO LOSE 786 00:29:03,433 --> 00:29:04,267 ANOTHER 20 POUNDS? 787 00:29:04,267 --> 00:29:05,667 >> YES, I AM. 788 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:12,733 >> I'LL GRIND -- I'LL GRIND UP 789 00:29:12,733 --> 00:29:13,500 YOUR TURKEY. 790 00:29:13,500 --> 00:29:14,900 >> YOU DON'T HAVE TO GRIND MY 791 00:29:14,900 --> 00:29:15,533 TURKEY UP. 792 00:29:15,533 --> 00:29:16,933 >> AND I'LL MAKE A GOOD APPLE 793 00:29:16,933 --> 00:29:18,433 PIE AND SAY, "OOH, ASHLEY, THIS 794 00:29:18,433 --> 00:29:19,700 TASTES SO GOOD." 795 00:29:23,067 --> 00:29:27,467 [ LAUGHS ] 796 00:29:27,467 --> 00:29:29,233 >> TURN OVER THIS WAY. 797 00:29:29,233 --> 00:29:31,567 >> I KNOW THAT MY MOM LOVES ME, 798 00:29:31,567 --> 00:29:33,833 BUT I DON'T KNOW WHY SHE KEEPS 799 00:29:33,833 --> 00:29:34,867 TEASING ME. 800 00:29:34,867 --> 00:29:37,067 I'M DOING MY BEST, BUT SHE'S 801 00:29:37,067 --> 00:29:39,133 MAKING IT SO HARD. 802 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:17,167 >> WE TOOK ALMOST 31 POUNDS OFF 803 00:30:17,167 --> 00:30:21,067 OF HER BACK AND HER THIGHS. 804 00:30:21,067 --> 00:30:23,333 ASHLEY'S MADE PROGRESS, BUT 805 00:30:23,333 --> 00:30:25,867 BEFORE WE DO MORE SKIN SURGERY, 806 00:30:25,867 --> 00:30:28,133 SHE HAS TO CONTINUE TO LOSE 807 00:30:28,133 --> 00:30:29,000 WEIGHT. 808 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:31,033 >> I JUST WANT HER TO WAKE UP. 809 00:30:31,033 --> 00:30:33,500 ASH, COME ON, BABY. 810 00:30:33,500 --> 00:30:34,667 I THINK YOU NEED TO JUST OPEN 811 00:30:34,667 --> 00:30:35,867 YOUR EYES JUST A LITTLE BIT. 812 00:30:35,867 --> 00:30:37,133 THEY GAVE YOU THAT MORPHINE 813 00:30:37,133 --> 00:30:40,400 THAT'S MAKING YOU TOO SLEEPY. 814 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,500 JUST OPEN YOUR EYES, PLEASE. 815 00:30:42,500 --> 00:30:44,033 >> SHE'LL OPEN THEM WHEN SHE'S 816 00:30:44,033 --> 00:30:46,333 READY. 817 00:30:46,333 --> 00:30:48,933 >> ASHLEY, OPEN YOUR EYES. 818 00:30:55,533 --> 00:30:57,500 [ SNIFFLES ] 819 00:31:05,733 --> 00:31:07,067 >> HOW'S EVERYTHING GOING WITH 820 00:31:07,067 --> 00:31:07,633 YOUR EATING? 821 00:31:07,633 --> 00:31:08,900 >> I CAN EAT REALLY ANYTHING, 822 00:31:08,900 --> 00:31:10,133 YOU KNOW, BUT I JUST -- THERE 823 00:31:10,133 --> 00:31:11,467 ARE CERTAIN THINGS I STILL HAVE 824 00:31:11,467 --> 00:31:12,467 TO WATCH. 825 00:31:12,633 --> 00:31:13,800 LIKE, SOMETIMES I DON'T EAT 826 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:14,933 LUNCH TILL LIKE 2:00, 3:00. 827 00:31:14,933 --> 00:31:16,100 >> SEE, THAT'S THE PROBLEM. 828 00:31:16,100 --> 00:31:17,133 NOW THAT YOU'VE HAD YOUR 829 00:31:17,133 --> 00:31:18,433 SURGERY, YOU'VE REALLY, REALLY, 830 00:31:18,433 --> 00:31:21,133 REALLY GOT TO "PROTEIN, PROTEIN, 831 00:31:21,133 --> 00:31:21,733 PROTEIN." 832 00:31:21,733 --> 00:31:22,833 >> YEAH, THAT'S TRUE. 833 00:31:22,833 --> 00:31:24,433 >> ALWAYS DO YOUR PROTEIN FIRST. 834 00:31:24,433 --> 00:31:25,567 ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS. 835 00:31:25,567 --> 00:31:26,400 CONGRATULATIONS. 836 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:27,133 >> THANK YOU. 837 00:31:27,133 --> 00:31:27,600 >> BYE. 838 00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:28,533 >> BYE-BYE. 839 00:31:31,900 --> 00:31:33,467 AT FOUR YEARS OUT, SHE SHOULD BE 840 00:31:33,467 --> 00:31:35,067 CLOSE TO GOAL, AND I DON'T THINK 841 00:31:35,067 --> 00:31:37,167 SHE IS. 842 00:31:47,067 --> 00:31:48,900 >> I'M LOOKING AT YOUR CHART. 843 00:31:48,900 --> 00:31:49,967 YOU'RE 297 NOW. 844 00:31:49,967 --> 00:31:50,733 >> YEP. 845 00:31:50,733 --> 00:31:53,067 >> AND LAST TIME YOU WERE HERE, 846 00:31:53,067 --> 00:31:54,200 307. 847 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,067 WELL, THE PROBLEM WITH BEING 848 00:31:57,067 --> 00:32:00,300 OVERWEIGHT AND HAVING SURGERY IS 849 00:32:00,300 --> 00:32:02,833 THAT SURGERY ALONE IS NOT GONNA 850 00:32:02,833 --> 00:32:04,067 BE THE ANSWER. 851 00:32:04,233 --> 00:32:05,967 HOW MANY TIMES YOU EAT IN A DAY? 852 00:32:05,967 --> 00:32:07,600 >> SOMETIMES FOUR. 853 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,300 >> AND SOMETIMES MORE THAN THAT? 854 00:32:10,300 --> 00:32:11,567 >> NO, JUST FOUR. 855 00:32:11,567 --> 00:32:13,500 >> IF YOU TALK TO ASHLEY, SHE 856 00:32:13,500 --> 00:32:15,500 WILL TELL YOU SHE'S NOT EATING 857 00:32:15,500 --> 00:32:16,300 ANYTHING. 858 00:32:16,300 --> 00:32:19,567 AND THAT'S JUST IMPOSSIBLE. 859 00:32:19,567 --> 00:32:22,067 BY NOW, SHE SHOULD BE UNDER 200. 860 00:32:22,067 --> 00:32:23,533 SHE IS UNDER 300. 861 00:32:23,533 --> 00:32:27,400 YOU DEFINITELY HAVE AN EXCESSIVE 862 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:29,500 OVEREATING HABIT. 863 00:32:29,500 --> 00:32:31,400 SHE'S TAKING AT LEAST 3,000 864 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:32,567 CALORIES A DAY. 865 00:32:32,567 --> 00:32:34,267 THE OTHER PROBLEM IS SHE'S GOT 866 00:32:34,267 --> 00:32:35,800 EVERYBODY IN HER FAMILY IS 867 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:36,567 OVERWEIGHT. 868 00:32:36,567 --> 00:32:37,267 >> RIGHT. 869 00:32:37,267 --> 00:32:38,733 >> THAT'S VERY DIFFICULT. 870 00:32:38,733 --> 00:32:41,333 IT'S LIKE HAVING AN ALCOHOLIC BE 871 00:32:41,333 --> 00:32:42,533 A BARTENDER. 872 00:32:42,533 --> 00:32:43,133 >> RIGHT. 873 00:32:43,133 --> 00:32:46,600 >> SO IT'S GONNA BE DIFFICULT. 874 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:48,300 ALL RIGHT, LET'S LAY DOWN AND 875 00:32:48,300 --> 00:32:49,367 SEE. 876 00:32:49,367 --> 00:32:54,067 OKAY. 877 00:32:54,067 --> 00:32:56,067 THAT EATING HABIT AND THAT 878 00:32:56,067 --> 00:32:58,300 PERSONALITY IS STILL THERE. 879 00:32:58,300 --> 00:33:00,300 MY CONCERN IS THAT SOMEWHERE 880 00:33:00,300 --> 00:33:02,300 DOWN THE LINE, SHE'S GOING TO 881 00:33:02,300 --> 00:33:03,300 GAIN WEIGHT. 882 00:33:03,300 --> 00:33:05,433 ALL RIGHT, I'LL SEE Y'ALL LATER. 883 00:33:05,433 --> 00:33:07,467 >> WELL, HE'S RIGHT. 884 00:33:07,467 --> 00:33:09,500 HE CAN'T DO ANYTHING ELSE UNTIL 885 00:33:09,500 --> 00:33:11,367 YOU GET DOWN THERE WHERE YOU 886 00:33:11,367 --> 00:33:12,433 NEED TO BE AT. 887 00:33:12,433 --> 00:33:14,333 SO YOU JUST HAVE TO PUT YOUR 888 00:33:14,333 --> 00:33:15,267 MIND TO IT. 889 00:33:15,267 --> 00:33:16,433 I KNOW YOU DON'T THINK YOU'RE 890 00:33:16,433 --> 00:33:16,900 CHEATING. 891 00:33:16,900 --> 00:33:17,833 I MEAN, IT'S INSTINCT. 892 00:33:17,833 --> 00:33:19,067 YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU'RE HUNGRY, 893 00:33:19,067 --> 00:33:19,600 YOU JUST EAT. 894 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:21,200 HE'S HEARD EVERY STORY, SO WHAT 895 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:22,700 YOU'RE TELLING HIM IS NOTHING 896 00:33:22,700 --> 00:33:24,600 NEW. 897 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,633 >> SHE HAS COME A LONG WAY, BUT 898 00:33:27,633 --> 00:33:30,400 SHE'S STILL NOT CLOSE TO HER 899 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,533 IDEAL BODY WEIGHT. 900 00:33:52,833 --> 00:33:55,067 >> GOING FROM LOOKING AT THIS 901 00:33:55,067 --> 00:33:57,500 PICTURE HERE TO WHAT SHE IS NOW, 902 00:33:57,500 --> 00:34:00,233 SHE'S A HALF OF A PERSON -- HALF 903 00:34:00,233 --> 00:34:02,133 OF WHAT SHE STARTED AT. 904 00:34:05,133 --> 00:34:08,100 [ LAUGHTER ] 905 00:34:08,100 --> 00:34:10,133 SHE USED TO SNEAK FOOD. 906 00:34:10,133 --> 00:34:11,567 >> MOM, DON'T... 907 00:34:11,567 --> 00:34:13,267 >> I WAS VERY UPSET AT HER. 908 00:34:13,267 --> 00:34:15,367 I MEAN, I WAS MAD AT HER. 909 00:34:15,367 --> 00:34:17,067 I MEAN, I'D GET ON HER ALL THE 910 00:34:17,067 --> 00:34:18,733 TIME -- "YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO 911 00:34:18,733 --> 00:34:19,700 BE EATING THAT." 912 00:34:19,700 --> 00:34:21,267 WE'D FIND EMPTY SOUP CANS IN 913 00:34:21,267 --> 00:34:22,067 HER DRAWER. 914 00:34:22,067 --> 00:34:23,933 >> Y'ALL THINK THE WORST OF ME. 915 00:34:24,100 --> 00:34:25,833 >> WELL, YEAH, WE'D GO IN THERE 916 00:34:25,833 --> 00:34:27,100 AND FIND IT IN THERE. 917 00:34:27,100 --> 00:34:29,067 >> WE TRIED EVERYTHING. 918 00:34:29,067 --> 00:34:30,200 INSTEAD OF LOSING, SHE WAS 919 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:31,167 GAINING. 920 00:34:31,333 --> 00:34:32,400 I SAID, "THAT'S IT. 921 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:33,900 I'M NOT DOING NOTHING ELSE." 922 00:34:33,900 --> 00:34:35,733 AND I DIDN'T. 923 00:34:35,733 --> 00:34:41,400 IT'S AN ADDICTION TO FOOD. 924 00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:41,967 >> [ SIGHS ] 925 00:34:41,967 --> 00:34:43,400 >> WHERE ARE YOU WALKING TO? 926 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:44,767 >> FOOD ADDICTION -- IF YOU'VE 927 00:34:44,767 --> 00:34:45,967 HAD IT ALL YOUR LIFE, IT'S 928 00:34:45,967 --> 00:34:48,367 ALWAYS GONNA BE THERE. 929 00:34:48,367 --> 00:34:50,867 BUT MY MOM - SHE PUT ME OUT ON 930 00:34:50,867 --> 00:34:53,467 THE SPOT IN FRONT OF EVERYBODY. 931 00:34:53,467 --> 00:34:55,400 I DON'T KNOW WHY SHE KEEPS 932 00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:56,400 TEASING ME. 933 00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:58,600 I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. 934 00:35:05,767 --> 00:35:08,067 WHAT'S UP? HOW YOU DOING? 935 00:35:08,067 --> 00:35:09,733 HEY, ROZ, WHAT'S UP? 936 00:35:09,733 --> 00:35:11,900 [ LAUGHTER ] 937 00:35:16,567 --> 00:35:17,967 >> ASHLEY, WHY DON'T YOU PUT 938 00:35:17,967 --> 00:35:19,167 SOME QUARTERS UP, BABY? 939 00:35:19,167 --> 00:35:20,633 >> WELL, ASHLEY CALLED ME AND 940 00:35:20,633 --> 00:35:22,100 SHE WAS HAVING SOME PROBLEMS, 941 00:35:22,100 --> 00:35:23,633 AND I TOLD HER, "HONEY, I GOT A 942 00:35:23,633 --> 00:35:24,433 TWO-BEDROOM. 943 00:35:24,433 --> 00:35:27,533 YOU'RE ALWAYS WELCOME. 944 00:35:27,700 --> 00:35:29,067 >> I'M VERY EXCITED. 945 00:35:29,067 --> 00:35:30,800 I AM NOT SHELTERED NO MORE. 946 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:32,633 I FEEL VERY INDEPENDENT ON MY 947 00:35:32,633 --> 00:35:33,133 OWN. 948 00:35:33,133 --> 00:35:34,967 >> IT REALLY BOTHERED ME WHEN 949 00:35:34,967 --> 00:35:36,833 SHE MOVED OUT, 'CAUSE I WORRY 950 00:35:36,833 --> 00:35:37,800 ABOUT ASHLEY. 951 00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:39,100 I CAN'T LET GO. 952 00:35:39,100 --> 00:35:41,200 I JUST CAN'T LET GO OF HER. 953 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,567 >> I THINK THAT PAT IS STARTING 954 00:35:43,567 --> 00:35:45,733 TO REALIZE, WORDS CUT DEEPER 955 00:35:45,733 --> 00:35:46,900 THAN A KNIFE. 956 00:35:46,900 --> 00:35:48,667 >> WHENEVER MY MOM USED TO TEASE 957 00:35:48,667 --> 00:35:50,267 ME, I WOULD GET REALLY ANGRY 958 00:35:50,267 --> 00:35:50,933 WITH HER. 959 00:35:50,933 --> 00:35:52,733 >> [ Voice breaking ] I KNOW I'D 960 00:35:52,733 --> 00:35:53,867 MAKE HER FEEL BAD. 961 00:35:53,867 --> 00:35:55,533 I ALWAYS CRITICIZED HER ABOUT 962 00:35:55,533 --> 00:35:57,300 WHAT SHE WAS EATING AND HOW BIG 963 00:35:57,300 --> 00:35:59,067 SHE WAS, BECAUSE I GET ANGRY AT 964 00:35:59,067 --> 00:35:59,633 ASHLEY. 965 00:35:59,633 --> 00:36:01,100 >> YEAH, GIRL! 966 00:36:01,100 --> 00:36:02,700 >> SHE SAYS SHE LOVES ME, BUT, 967 00:36:02,700 --> 00:36:03,967 I MEAN, IT STILL HURTS. 968 00:36:03,967 --> 00:36:05,167 >> CATHY, DID YOU GET HER A 969 00:36:05,167 --> 00:36:05,533 SHOT? 970 00:36:05,533 --> 00:36:06,867 >> WHY NOT? 971 00:36:06,867 --> 00:36:07,533 >> [ LAUGHS ] 972 00:36:07,533 --> 00:36:08,800 >> BUT I GOT TO DEAL WITH THIS 973 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,067 ANGER TOWARDS MY MOM. 974 00:36:12,067 --> 00:36:13,567 IF WE DON'T WORK THIS OUT, MY 975 00:36:13,567 --> 00:36:14,967 LIFE, IT'S NEVER GONNA GET 976 00:36:14,967 --> 00:36:15,533 BETTER. 977 00:36:15,533 --> 00:36:17,667 >> THERE IT IS! WHOOP! 978 00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:34,067 >> I'M SURE YOU'RE GONNA GET UP 979 00:36:34,067 --> 00:36:34,733 AT 6:00. 980 00:36:34,733 --> 00:36:36,467 YOU KNOW YOU WON'T SEE 6:00. 981 00:36:36,467 --> 00:36:38,567 WE KNOW YOU. 982 00:36:38,567 --> 00:36:40,067 LAST YEAR, MY DAD WAS 983 00:36:40,067 --> 00:36:41,667 COMPLAINING ABOUT HIS LEG 984 00:36:41,667 --> 00:36:42,867 HURTING REAL BAD. 985 00:36:42,867 --> 00:36:44,600 THEY SAID IT WAS ARTHRITIS, AND 986 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:48,067 IT ENDED UP BEING CANCER. 987 00:36:48,067 --> 00:36:49,933 HE'S GOT TO DO TWO ROUND OF 988 00:36:49,933 --> 00:36:52,067 CHEMO, AND IF IT DOESN'T HELP, 989 00:36:52,067 --> 00:36:53,967 THEY CAN'T HELP HIM NO MORE. 990 00:37:00,267 --> 00:37:02,067 I KNEW I HAD TO MAKE A DECISION 991 00:37:02,067 --> 00:37:03,900 TO TAKE TIME OFF FROM SCHOOL TO 992 00:37:03,900 --> 00:37:04,600 HELP HIM. 993 00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,333 BEFORE, WHEN I WAS OVERWEIGHT, 994 00:37:06,333 --> 00:37:07,967 MY DAD, HE TOOK CARE OF ME. 995 00:37:07,967 --> 00:37:09,667 NOW THAT THE WEIGHT IS OFF, I 996 00:37:09,667 --> 00:37:11,100 CAN TAKE CARE OF HIM. 997 00:37:11,100 --> 00:37:12,333 >> ON THE 18th, HE'LL SEE 998 00:37:12,333 --> 00:37:13,867 DR. WARD AND GET HIS C.A.T. SCAN 999 00:37:13,867 --> 00:37:15,967 DONE, ALL THE SAME DAY. 1000 00:37:15,967 --> 00:37:18,433 >> MY DAD IS A BIG INFLUENCE IN 1001 00:37:18,433 --> 00:37:19,333 MY LIFE. 1002 00:37:19,333 --> 00:37:21,733 I MEAN, I LOVE MY DAD SO MUCH. 1003 00:37:21,733 --> 00:37:23,867 HOPEFULLY, YOU KNOW, GET MY DAD 1004 00:37:23,867 --> 00:37:26,100 TAKEN CARE OF, AND I CAN BE ABLE 1005 00:37:26,100 --> 00:37:27,100 TO MOVE OUT. 1006 00:37:27,100 --> 00:37:28,967 IT'S GONNA TAKE A WHILE. 1007 00:37:40,533 --> 00:37:42,367 >> MY DAD GOT DIAGNOSED WITH 1008 00:37:42,367 --> 00:37:43,933 CANCER. 1009 00:37:43,933 --> 00:37:45,333 I WANTED EVERYTHING TO BE OKAY. 1010 00:37:45,333 --> 00:37:46,500 I DIDN'T WANT HIM TO HAVE 1011 00:37:46,500 --> 00:37:48,633 CANCER, BUT HE HAD CANCER. 1012 00:37:58,167 --> 00:38:00,733 YEAH, MY DADDY WAS LIKE MY ROCK. 1013 00:38:00,733 --> 00:38:01,933 HE WAS ALWAYS THERE IN MY 1014 00:38:01,933 --> 00:38:02,433 CORNER. 1015 00:38:02,433 --> 00:38:03,767 HE SAID, "YOU'RE DOING GOOD. 1016 00:38:03,767 --> 00:38:05,067 YOU GOT TO KEEP IT GOING." 1017 00:38:05,067 --> 00:38:06,267 HE SAID, "YOU WORK ON THIS 1018 00:38:06,267 --> 00:38:07,733 WEIGHT, GET THIS OFF SO YOU CAN 1019 00:38:07,733 --> 00:38:09,133 GET EVERYTHING ELSE DONE, AND 1020 00:38:09,133 --> 00:38:10,333 YOU CAN START YOUR LIFE." 1021 00:38:10,333 --> 00:38:11,867 YOU KNOW, HE WAS PROUD THAT I 1022 00:38:11,867 --> 00:38:13,200 WAS LOSING THE WEIGHT AND 1023 00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:14,600 GETTING OUT AND DOING MORE 1024 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:15,133 THINGS. 1025 00:38:15,133 --> 00:38:16,767 AND IT FEELS REALLY GOOD FOR ME 1026 00:38:16,767 --> 00:38:18,667 THAT HE GOT TO SEE THAT. 1027 00:38:22,067 --> 00:38:23,467 MY DAD HAS HELPED ME COME THIS 1028 00:38:23,467 --> 00:38:24,933 FAR. 1029 00:38:24,933 --> 00:38:26,967 AND NOW I KNOW HE'LL BE WATCHING 1030 00:38:26,967 --> 00:38:28,867 DOWN AND SEEING ME GET BETTER 1031 00:38:28,867 --> 00:38:30,067 AND GET SMALLER. 1032 00:38:30,067 --> 00:38:31,967 KNOWING THAT HE'S WATCHING ME, 1033 00:38:31,967 --> 00:38:34,167 I HAVE TO MAKE HIM PROUD. 1034 00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:41,833 DRIVE OFF AND THEN COME BACK, 1035 00:38:41,833 --> 00:38:42,367 I GUESS. 1036 00:38:42,367 --> 00:38:45,067 I'M GOING TO SEE DR. NOWZARADAN. 1037 00:38:45,067 --> 00:38:48,100 I HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH I WEIGH. 1038 00:38:48,100 --> 00:38:49,200 I REALLY HAVEN'T BEEN KEEPING 1039 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:50,167 TRACK OF MY WEIGHT, WITH 1040 00:38:50,167 --> 00:38:52,267 EVERYTHING THAT'S BEEN GOING ON. 1041 00:39:07,500 --> 00:39:10,067 >> ASHLEY, YOU DOING ALL RIGHT? 1042 00:39:10,067 --> 00:39:11,433 >> I'M HANGING IN THERE. 1043 00:39:11,433 --> 00:39:14,400 >> FIRST TIME WE SAW YOU, 617, 1044 00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:15,067 HUH? 1045 00:39:15,067 --> 00:39:16,933 NOW YOU'RE 250. 1046 00:39:16,933 --> 00:39:18,200 STILL GOING TO SCHOOL? 1047 00:39:18,367 --> 00:39:19,533 >> YES, SIR, STILL GOING TO 1048 00:39:19,533 --> 00:39:20,200 SCHOOL, YEAH. 1049 00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:20,900 >> THAT'S GOOD. 1050 00:39:20,900 --> 00:39:21,967 WHEN YOU GONNA GRADUATE? 1051 00:39:21,967 --> 00:39:24,467 >> PROBABLY MAYBE NEXT DECEMBER. 1052 00:39:24,467 --> 00:39:27,200 >> UPPER BODY DOING PRETTY GOOD, 1053 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,667 BUT YOU HAVE A LOT OF EXCESS 1054 00:39:29,667 --> 00:39:31,867 FLUID IN YOUR LEGS. 1055 00:39:31,867 --> 00:39:35,400 LOWER LEGS ARE WHAT IT WAS 1056 00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:37,567 WHEN SHE WAS 600 POUNDS. 1057 00:39:37,567 --> 00:39:39,333 WHEN SHE HAS SURGICAL REMOVAL OF 1058 00:39:39,333 --> 00:39:40,767 SKIN, SHE'D PROBABLY LOSE 1059 00:39:40,767 --> 00:39:42,067 ANOTHER 30, 40 POUNDS. 1060 00:39:42,067 --> 00:39:44,233 OVERALL, YOU'RE DOING GREAT, BUT 1061 00:39:44,233 --> 00:39:47,200 IF YOU CAN GET TO 220... 1062 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:48,167 >> OKAY. 1063 00:39:48,167 --> 00:39:50,567 >> ...IT'LL BE MUCH BETTER. 1064 00:39:50,567 --> 00:39:52,800 ASHLEY'S PROGRESS HAS BEEN SLOW 1065 00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:53,800 BUT STEADY. 1066 00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,333 SHE'S MAINTAINING WEIGHT LOSS. 1067 00:39:56,333 --> 00:39:58,167 I THINK SHE'S OVERALL DOING 1068 00:39:58,167 --> 00:39:58,733 GOOD. 1069 00:39:58,733 --> 00:40:00,633 SUPER. YOU'RE DOING GREAT. 1070 00:40:00,633 --> 00:40:01,567 >> ALL RIGHT, THANK YOU, SIR. 1071 00:40:01,567 --> 00:40:02,800 >> ALL RIGHT, NEXT TIME I SEE 1072 00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:03,933 YOU, I WANT YOU TO BE 220. 1073 00:40:03,933 --> 00:40:05,900 >> YES, SIR. 1074 00:40:14,667 --> 00:40:15,033 >> HI. 1075 00:40:15,033 --> 00:40:15,733 >> HOW ARE YOU? 1076 00:40:15,733 --> 00:40:16,167 >> FINE. 1077 00:40:16,167 --> 00:40:17,267 >> DO YOU HAVE A SIZE RANGE 1078 00:40:17,267 --> 00:40:18,833 YOU'RE LOOKING FOR? 1079 00:40:19,967 --> 00:40:22,433 OKAY. 1080 00:40:22,433 --> 00:40:23,900 >> OH, THAT'S CUTE, ISN'T IT? 1081 00:40:23,900 --> 00:40:25,400 >> I HAD BEEN ORDERING CLOTHES 1082 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:26,900 OUT OF CATALOGS SINCE I WAS IN 1083 00:40:26,900 --> 00:40:27,700 MIDDLE SCHOOL. 1084 00:40:27,700 --> 00:40:29,500 NOW, BEING ABLE TO SHOP AT A 1085 00:40:29,500 --> 00:40:31,400 REGULAR STORE, THAT MADE ME SO 1086 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:32,000 HAPPY. 1087 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,633 I LOVE GOING OUT AND LOOKING AND 1088 00:40:33,633 --> 00:40:34,800 TRYING ON NEW CLOTHES. 1089 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,100 >> DO YOU LIKE THAT? 1090 00:40:36,267 --> 00:40:37,567 SHE HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO 1091 00:40:37,567 --> 00:40:39,000 ACTUALLY WALK INTO A STORE AND 1092 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:40,467 PICK SOMETHING OFF THE SHELVES 1093 00:40:40,467 --> 00:40:41,600 AND SAY, "I LIKE THIS. 1094 00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:42,500 I'M GONNA BUY IT. 1095 00:40:42,500 --> 00:40:44,867 WE DON'T WANT YOU TO POP OUT. 1096 00:40:45,033 --> 00:40:46,200 >> I LOVE BEING HERE WITH MY 1097 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:47,367 AUNT -- JUST SOMEONE THERE TO 1098 00:40:47,367 --> 00:40:48,633 SHOP WITH THAT'S GONNA TELL YOU 1099 00:40:48,633 --> 00:40:49,167 THE TRUTH. 1100 00:40:49,167 --> 00:40:50,267 >> IF YOU LIKE IT, HONEY. 1101 00:40:50,267 --> 00:40:51,567 IT JUST REMINDS ME OF SOMETHING 1102 00:40:51,567 --> 00:40:52,700 THAT MY MOTHER WOULD WEAR. 1103 00:40:52,700 --> 00:40:54,767 THAT'S ANOTHER STORY, OKAY? 1104 00:40:54,767 --> 00:40:55,967 WE CAN DO THAT. 1105 00:40:55,967 --> 00:40:57,367 THIS IS SO MUCH FUN. 1106 00:40:57,367 --> 00:40:59,200 IT'S LIKE A DREAM COME TRUE. 1107 00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:00,567 >> WHEN ALL THE SURGERIES ARE 1108 00:41:00,567 --> 00:41:01,967 DONE AND I'M AT MY GOAL WEIGHT, 1109 00:41:01,967 --> 00:41:03,300 THEN I'M GOING CLOTHES-CRAZY. 1110 00:41:03,300 --> 00:41:04,333 I'M BUYING EVERYTHING. 1111 00:41:04,333 --> 00:41:05,733 >> THANK YOU. 1112 00:41:05,733 --> 00:41:08,067 SEE YOU SOON. 1113 00:41:12,667 --> 00:41:15,233 [ DOG BARKING ] 1114 00:41:15,233 --> 00:41:16,633 >> HOW WAS YOUR DAY TODAY? 1115 00:41:16,633 --> 00:41:17,700 >> OH, IT WAS GOOD. 1116 00:41:17,700 --> 00:41:18,933 >> CHICKEN THIGHS WITH 1117 00:41:18,933 --> 00:41:20,267 PINEAPPLE, CORN, AND BELL 1118 00:41:20,267 --> 00:41:20,867 PEPPERS. 1119 00:41:20,867 --> 00:41:22,067 THAT SOUNDS GOOD. 1120 00:41:22,067 --> 00:41:22,867 >> IT DOES. 1121 00:41:22,867 --> 00:41:23,900 >> OKAY, READY? 1122 00:41:23,900 --> 00:41:25,833 >> ME AND MY MOM -- EMOTIONALLY, 1123 00:41:25,833 --> 00:41:27,767 WE'RE ALWAYS AT EACH OTHER ABOUT 1124 00:41:27,767 --> 00:41:28,400 THINGS. 1125 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,133 SHE WOULD EMBARRASS ME AND MAKE 1126 00:41:30,133 --> 00:41:30,967 ME FEEL BAD. 1127 00:41:30,967 --> 00:41:32,600 >> IT'S VERY IMPORTANT THAT WE 1128 00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:34,067 HAVE FAMILY TIME TOGETHER. 1129 00:41:34,067 --> 00:41:35,500 >> I HAVE TO BE THERE FOR HER. 1130 00:41:35,500 --> 00:41:36,900 SHE'S GOT TO BE THERE FOR ME 1131 00:41:36,900 --> 00:41:38,167 NOW, 'CAUSE IT'S JUST US. 1132 00:41:38,167 --> 00:41:39,433 >> THANK YOU, LORD, FOR THIS 1133 00:41:39,433 --> 00:41:40,533 FOOD WE'RE ABOUT TO EAT. 1134 00:41:40,533 --> 00:41:41,800 THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME AND 1135 00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:42,967 ASHLEY PREPARE IT TONIGHT. 1136 00:41:42,967 --> 00:41:44,933 WE HAVEN'T DONE THIS IN A VERY 1137 00:41:44,933 --> 00:41:45,767 LONG TIME. 1138 00:41:45,767 --> 00:41:47,867 >> NOW I CAN TELL HER HOW I 1139 00:41:47,867 --> 00:41:48,533 FEEL. 1140 00:41:48,533 --> 00:41:50,500 IT'S NOT WORTH THE ARGUING 1141 00:41:50,500 --> 00:41:52,567 ANYMORE, BECAUSE LIFE IS TOO 1142 00:41:52,567 --> 00:41:55,133 SHORT. 1143 00:41:55,133 --> 00:41:56,167 >> WE DID GOOD. 1144 00:41:56,167 --> 00:41:58,067 WE STILL HAVE OUR PROBLEMS, BUT 1145 00:41:58,067 --> 00:41:59,667 WE'RE WORKING THROUGH THEM. 1146 00:41:59,667 --> 00:42:01,667 >> ASHLEY ALWAYS SAID HER DAD 1147 00:42:01,667 --> 00:42:02,700 WAS HER ROCK. 1148 00:42:02,700 --> 00:42:04,833 I THINK, IN A FEW YEARS, HER MOM 1149 00:42:04,833 --> 00:42:07,067 WILL BE HER ROCK, TOO. 1150 00:42:15,933 --> 00:42:17,700 >> SPARKS. 1151 00:42:17,700 --> 00:42:18,467 SPARKS. 1152 00:42:18,467 --> 00:42:19,067 [ LAUGHS ] 1153 00:42:19,067 --> 00:42:20,400 I USED TO PLAY SOFTBALL WHEN I 1154 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:21,067 WAS YOUNGER. 1155 00:42:21,067 --> 00:42:21,667 YOU READY? 1156 00:42:21,667 --> 00:42:22,733 I PLAYED EVERY SUMMER. 1157 00:42:22,733 --> 00:42:24,167 Y'ALL GOT TO BE ALERT OUT THERE. 1158 00:42:24,167 --> 00:42:25,433 YOU GOT TO MAKE GOOD THROWS. 1159 00:42:25,433 --> 00:42:26,500 FINALLY, I FELT LIKE I GOT 1160 00:42:26,500 --> 00:42:27,400 ENOUGH WEIGHT OFF AND 1161 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:28,633 EVERYTHING, I SAID, "I WANT TO 1162 00:42:28,633 --> 00:42:29,067 COACH." 1163 00:42:29,067 --> 00:42:30,067 RUN UP ON THOSE! 1164 00:42:30,067 --> 00:42:31,567 SO I WENT UP AND SIGNED UP. 1165 00:42:31,567 --> 00:42:33,067 I'VE BEEN COACHING EVER SINCE. 1166 00:42:33,067 --> 00:42:34,300 ALL RIGHT, GIRLS, COME ON IN. 1167 00:42:34,300 --> 00:42:35,500 COACH HAD A SURGERY. 1168 00:42:35,500 --> 00:42:37,100 SHE USED TO BE REALLY, REALLY 1169 00:42:37,100 --> 00:42:39,533 BIG -- OVER LIKE 600 POUNDS. 1170 00:42:39,533 --> 00:42:40,433 AND IF SHE WAS STILL BIG, SHE 1171 00:42:40,433 --> 00:42:41,400 WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO BE OUT HERE 1172 00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:41,867 COACHING YOU. 1173 00:42:41,867 --> 00:42:42,700 SHE WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO BE 1174 00:42:42,700 --> 00:42:43,767 STANDING. 1175 00:42:44,433 --> 00:42:45,867 IT WAS EXCITING TO LOSE THE 1176 00:42:45,867 --> 00:42:46,367 WEIGHT. 1177 00:42:46,367 --> 00:42:48,067 I DIDN'T REALIZE, WHEN I STARTED 1178 00:42:48,067 --> 00:42:49,400 THIS JOURNEY, THAT I WOULD 1179 00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:50,367 CHANGE THIS MUCH. 1180 00:42:50,367 --> 00:42:51,467 TURN YOUR BODY AGAIN. 1181 00:42:51,467 --> 00:42:52,433 YOU'RE -- TURN IT. 1182 00:42:52,433 --> 00:42:53,667 NO, TOWARD ME. 1183 00:42:53,667 --> 00:42:56,100 >> ASHLEY'S GOT A LOVING HEART. 1184 00:42:56,100 --> 00:42:56,933 >> THERE YOU GO. 1185 00:42:56,933 --> 00:42:58,367 >> SHE'LL BE A WONDERFUL MOTHER 1186 00:42:58,367 --> 00:42:59,800 'CAUSE SHE'S SO GOOD WITH KIDS. 1187 00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,833 >> GOOD! GOOD HUSTLE, ADELINA! 1188 00:43:02,833 --> 00:43:04,233 IT IS SO MUCH FUN TEACHING 1189 00:43:04,233 --> 00:43:05,867 CHILDREN WHAT I'VE LEARNED, NOT 1190 00:43:05,867 --> 00:43:07,500 MAKING IT OUT ABOUT THE WIN ALL 1191 00:43:07,500 --> 00:43:11,067 THE TIME, JUST HAVING FUN. 1192 00:43:11,067 --> 00:43:12,567 IT'S BEEN A LONG ROAD. 1193 00:43:12,567 --> 00:43:14,167 [ INDISTINCT SHOUTING ] 1194 00:43:14,167 --> 00:43:15,367 ALL RIGHT, GOOD JOB! 1195 00:43:15,367 --> 00:43:17,567 I'M STAYING VERY MUCH ON TRACK. 1196 00:43:17,567 --> 00:43:19,500 I HAVE A WHOLE LOT OF OTHER 1197 00:43:19,500 --> 00:43:21,567 DREAMS BESIDES LOSING WEIGHT. 1198 00:43:21,567 --> 00:43:22,533 [ APPLAUSE ] 1199 00:43:22,533 --> 00:43:23,500 KEEP RUNNING, JANE! 1200 00:43:23,500 --> 00:43:24,733 GET DOWN AND KEEP RUNNING! 1201 00:43:24,733 --> 00:43:26,900 I HAVE SO MUCH ENERGY TO GET OUT 1202 00:43:26,900 --> 00:43:27,967 AND DO STUFF. 1203 00:43:27,967 --> 00:43:29,600 IT IS JUST SO EXCITING. 1204 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:30,767 I JUST LOVE IT. 1205 00:43:30,767 --> 00:43:32,700 I AM SO HAPPY TO GET MY LIFE 1206 00:43:32,700 --> 00:43:33,567 BACK.